Poemsnotperverts's blog: "DAY TO DAY BLOG"

The title of this blog is simple because the thoughts therein are going to be to the point and simple.

It's amazing how, if you are into someone and you care for them and they don't seem to care for you or give you much attention, the moment you pull away they feel it and start paying attention to you. Suddenly eyes that never looked your way or arms that never reached out to hold you are suddenly open to do so. Its as if there is an invisible rope tied between yourself and that person and they can feel it being slowly cut away. They feel the hold loosening and the fibers fraying and it disturbs them and they do what they can to pull you back. 

Whatever it is in life you love you should love. You should express your love and give your attention as much as you can whenever you can in whatever way you can. To have someone and walk around thinking "I don't have to give that person any attention and affection because they love me so much they will just BE THERE no matter what" is arrogant and foolhardy thinking. People love, but they also can be emotionally starved to death if not fed, and if they get to point of near inner death they can and will pull away....especially if someone or something around them comes along and offers nourishment. The moment they start to feed their eyes get opened and they will look towards the one who starved them with sideways glances and thoughts of "I don't need this shit..its not worth it" and then walk away. 

In this modern world, there is no excuse for not keeping in contact at least. If someone tells you "I just don't have time to talk to you" immediately call bullshit. You can call..you can email...you can leave a voicemail or text..all of that take seconds. You can do any of that during a lunch break or bathroom break. If someone says "I don't have time to call you" what they REALLY mean is "you aren't important enough for me to take at least 5 seconds to stay in contact with, even just every once in awhile." Whatever it is in life that's important to us we will make time for...people, places, things..you automatically carve a spot in your life so that it can be in your life and stand out. Whatever isn't important to you doesn't get a spot and you shove into a shadow.You forget about it. 

Dear reader...if you know or if you are connected to someone who you love or care for that emotionally neglects you or you have to chase around to get their attention...walk away from that shit. If you mattered you wouldn't have to give chase. You wouldn't be sitting there exhausting yourself calling them all the time to talk to them and they never call you. You wouldn't be the one setting up ways to spend time in their company and they never express any enthusiasm to spend time with you. You love them, you care for them, you like them...I get it..but apparently the feeling isn't mutual. The faster you swallow that TRUTH pill and let it heal you the better. 

Wanna hear something funny? The moment you adopt an " I am soooo tired of this shit, I don't care anymore" attitude those neglectful people feel that inner strength and want your attention..but by then you won't even care. You will have moved far and away out of their bullshit zone into another place that gives you peace. Letting go of dead weight means you gain something not lose anything. You gain inner serenity and happiness and space to do other things and hang out with people who DO call you on the phone or DO express they want to hang with you. You wont feel like you are begging and getting scraps of a persons love and attention.

FUCK THAT!

YOU ARE BETTER THEN THAT!

YOU ARE WORTH MORE THEN THAT BULLSHIT

PUT YOUR BOOTS ON AND STOMP AWAY,YOU HEAR ME? STOMP!!!


Be around that which sees and appreciates your beauty and uniqueness..those who encourage your spark of life and happiness. 

You got friends who never call? FUCK THEM

A girlfriend/boyfriend who acts more bored and disinterested then eager to be around you? #byebitch!

Don't make the mistake of being pulled back into people like that if you find your inner strength and they try to reel you back in for control's sake. That's all its about btw...control..they like having it, they think they have it over you, you try to break away, they don't want that and they will work to keep you in place. It feeds their sense of self and their ego to know that they have dominion over you. If they really cared they wouldn't have ignored or starved you to death..made you cry.made you hurt..Give a person too much pain and neglect and "I'm sorry, forgive me " just doesn't cover it. Walk away. It's the right and just decision.


This life is too damn short to waste time on people places and things that give no joy. Push all the bad shit and people away and good people and things WILL come. I promise you. 

Im out.