Carpe Diem's blog: "Personality"

When it comes to matters of the heart, I go all in. As long as I'm happy, so will you be. That consists of the 2 by 2 by 2 rule. For those of you that don't know what that is, here is the rundown. Date night every 2 weeks, a weekend getaway every 2 month, and a week together every 2 years. You treat me the way I deserve to be treated, no other man will ever exist to me. However, if you do not, any relationship issues fall on you. 

I should have an equal say in every decision made in the relationship. Making decisions for both of us without the other is just wrong. A man's job  is to provide, protect, and lead. This isn't up for debate. When I mean provide, I mean everything financial. I get that once in a blue moon, things happen. However, if I have to do any of it as a woman on a regular basis, you are not a real man. Sorry. To protect a woman is to protect her heart and protect her physically. Not allowing any harm to come to her. If you cannot protect her heart, you don't deserve her. Point blank. The latter is self-explanatory. Then there is the leading aspect. You lead by example. You are the spiritual leader of the home. 

Now for the woman's role. To nurture, teach, and comfort. What does that entail? To nurture, teach, and comfort. What does that entail you ask? Nurturing is not just for the man's sake, but also for the sake of the children. Someone who is kind, gentle, and caring. Someone who knows exactly how to cheer up the other effortlessly and does it. To pick you up when you have fallen down. To teach. To teach you how to be a better person, a better man, by example. To teach the children how to be caring, responsible adults. To become self-sufficient. The last one, comfort. This involves cooking a decent meal, keeping the house clean, handling the household responsibilities. 

Now, I am aware times are different. I am in agreement. These roles can be bent or flexed. If a man is not able to complete his role, he has no right to expect the same from her. PERIOD! That's right fellas. If I am handling my own business and sharing the burden of providing while managing the house, do not expect a home cooked meal or a clean house all the time. Not happening. No woman wants to raise another "child".

With that being said, if you are not able to do what a man requires, you interfere with her happiness. That's not fair to her. On another note, if I am happy, you will receive a full body massage once a week , every week. A home cooked meal at least 4 times a week will be waiting for you and the house will always be clean. Not to mention, I will make sure you are more than satisfied. You will be spoiled....