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If you have already read my profile, this blog should be more in depth. The intellectual side. I graduated high school and college with honors. I was accepted into West Point Academy. This is a big deal. It is one of the top colleges in the country. Many of our presidents went to college there. I did not apply to this college. They came after me. I have an extensive background in psychology. I'm also an artist in my spare time and have experience in Interior Design. I'm a licensed massage therapist, graduated top of my class, and currently practicing for over 8 years now. I love helping others with personal issues they can't figure out on their own and helping those deal with physical pain. I can't stand it when someone is hurting. I have had my fair share of pain both emotionally and physically, so I can relate. I have had 7 surgeries from now since 18 years of age. Surgery doesn't scare me anymore. I just want to get it over with. I have a hard exterior and soft interior meaning that my shield is always up and if I suspect anything of you I don't like you will be cast aside and quickly. I am delicate on the inside and can easily get hurt. It's usually by those I have let in. Believe me, I just don't let anyone in. I'm very specific and yes, I will figure it out if you're not worth my time. I have studied human behavior for the better part of 25 years. It's rather fascinating looking at the actions of others and studying their patterns.
On a personal level, I'm a straight shooter. I have no issues or reservations telling people exactly what I think whether it hurts someone or not. However, I will hold some things back out of consideration for the feelings of another person. If you manage to piss me off, I will NOT hold back. I am highly educated on matters of the heart and what it takes to keep a man happy. I also know what both men and women want in regards to relationships. Unfortunately, most of it boils down to the thrill of the chase and that works on both ends of the spectum. If you don't keep things interesting, the other walk if not run away. I have always been the type of woman who has more guy friends than girls, mainly because guys are low key and low-maintenance with far less drama. I miss having girlfriends and girls' night out, but some women have a tendency to be frenemies than real friends.
If we ever become friends, I WILL push your limits. The reason why is because I am looking for REAL friends here. It takes strength, patience, and loyalty to be a great friend and if you are worthy of my friendship, you will end up in my family. I keep a close watch of my family(hey even I make mistakes). Not everyone is who they appear to me. I take care of those who take care of me. I believe that each friendship should be one of reciprocation(equal parts of give and take), loyalty, compassion, and one that will stand the test of time. I can't stand those who are pervy, pushy, or disgusting on the inside. It's enough to make me ill.
I do have some hobbies as well. They include photography, scrapbooking, and art. I also enjoy reading, but the book has to hold my interest the whole time or I will stop reading. I love taking pictures. I've been doing since I was kid and love the many different ways you can take a photo. The best part is capturing a moment in a photo. I enjoy making collage pieces out of my photos. I use my scrapbooking skills for each piece I make.
As far as my romantic life goes, I have learned that men are simple creatures. I am not putting down a man, what I mean is that their pleasures are simple. For the most part, a man just wants a woman to take care of them, GOOD care of them. Like women, every man's tastes are different. It is the job of every person whether man or woman to figure that out. Some guys just want a someone to "love them". Others require a combination of skills. Trying to find a man or woman that is "perfect" is impossible. Also, men are incapable of change. Women grow and change often.Accept a person, flaws and all and you'll be better off, but don't settle until you realize the person you're with is as good as it gets.
