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Intimacy. A scary word for a lot of men out there. Beyond the understanding of most men. In all the relationships I have ever had, I have always had a back-up plan. ALWAYS. Not this time around. I never wanted someone more in my life the way I want my fiance. Maybe I'm coming on too strong. Perhaps, it's too much. It's also possible he doesn't know what intimacy is. Women need constant reassurance of how their man feels about them. The bedroom can only go so far. If you feel like the only way you can get intimacy is through having sex, then the relationship is in trouble. I've tried to get him to open up. I even tried romancing him. Still nothing. I have been in a depressing funk for over 2 weeks now and he hasn't even noticed or even asked if I'm alright. Did I do something wrong? I don't play games or make him jealous. I make sure to it, he knows that he's the only one for me. Every day. I take care of all the kids and the house while he works during the day, even though it jeopardizes my career. I work when he doesn't so we can maximize the earning potential of the household. I spend part of the week looking for deals so I can save him money. I don't even use his money unless it's absolutely necessary and that's rare. I pay for almost everything I need and take care of bills that I don't make him responsible for. I understand that a man needs to feel like a man and I give that to him. What do I do now? I'm starting to have serious doubts about getting married.
