There is two types of pain in the world. The type that is good, when agreed upon by consensual adults, and the kind that involves emotional hurt.
Now you can fool me once, and cause me pain, but don't think to fool me twice. I might enjoy a little pain with my sex, but I certainly don't enjoy emotional hurt.
So, if your intention is to come here, play with my emotions and hurt me, whether intentional, or unintentional, please just see your way to the 'door'.
Because although I like a little pain, I don't like to be hurt. It's happened too many times by too many people, that must be thinking that because I'm big, I can't be hurt. When in fact, it's just the opposite! You endure it so often, but so many different people, whether they did it intentionally or not, that you come to a point that you just want to stop trying.
You want to find a quiet, deserted island. You want to live there away from all the destructive forces of love. Away from all the potential hurt and heartache, away from it all.
So, be forewarned, I don't mind being friends, I don't mind being more than friends, but don't think to play with my emotions so that you can see what kind of reaction you'll get, you just might not like what happens.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, and it's shame on me. I have a tendency not to let people fool me twice, because I DON'T enjoy the pain.
*steps off soap box*
