PlayAngel's blog: "love"

Sometimes in life you try to hold on to something with your whole heart until one day you wonder why you are still holding on.  Why you still want that one last chance to show a person you can be better and be everything they want.  Truth is we all fall in love with the wrong people before we find the right one for us and sometimes you have to break up with someone to realize how much that person meant to you and how much you miss them and sometimes you love someone so much but you know it would be better for both of ya'll if ya'll went seperate ways.  Love is tricky and you really never know how much you love someone until they are not there anymore.  When you finally find the one for you that person won't judge you for your faults or insecurities instead I mean yes they will notice the things wrong with you but they will not care about those things.  Love is not there for your partner to judge you but for your partner to help you and for you to help them.  Love is not easy people it won't always be a walk in the park and there will be fights but isn't that what makes it better?  If all relationships were perfect and there were no arguments then how would you know that your love can survive all things.  Love needs trials to see if it is real.  If you can fight with your partner and still go to bed only wanting that person beside you thats love not going to bed because you know you were happy all day long.  Relationships take time and effort.  I think the movie the notebook has the best quote on love and that is
Young Allie: Stay with you? What for? Look at us, we're already fightin'
Young Noah: Well that's what we do, we fight... You tell me when I am being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you are a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a 2 second rebound rate, then you're back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing.
Young Allie: So what?
Young Noah: So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day.
This movie shows what real love is.  They show the bad and the good.  They also show that if you work for it then it will all be worth it in the end.  I mean come on people you LOVE IS NOT EASY!!!! Personally I wouldn't want it to be.  I like knowing that the love I have for a person could survive the worst fight we could have.  That it could survive the tears and the words that should never be said.  I don't want happy 24/7 then its not worth it.  If my love for someone can go through a fight then I know it can go through anything.  I mean with out fights you can not have the wonderful make up sex. (lol).  If people give up on a relationship when it gets tough you will always wonder what it would have been like if you stuck through it.  If everyone gave up on something when it got tough nothing in life would happen.  Bridges and buildings would not have been built.  Technology would not exsit and new cures for cancer and STD's would not be found.  Food would not be produced.  So why give up on love and relationships when they get hard? I think it is because we are afraid of giving someone the power to make us cry or the power to break us.  So if you think what i wrote is wrong then please tell me but I know that alot of people agree with me.please let me know your thoughts and feelings on this post,i would love to hear them!!