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1. Maybe   . . . we were supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that, when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

 

2. Maybe . . . when the door of happiness closes, another opens; but, often times, we look so long at the closed door that we don't even see the new one which has been opened for us.

 

3. Maybe . . . it is true that we don't know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.

 

4. Maybe . . . the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

 

5. Maybe . . . the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; after all, you can't go on successfully in life until you let go of your past mistakes, failures and heartaches.

 

6.. Maybe . . . you should dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you dream of, and want to do.

 

7. Maybe . . . there are moments in life when you miss someone -- a parent, a spouse, a friend, a child -- so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real, so that once they are around you appreciate them more.

 

8. Maybe . . . the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

 

9. Maybe . . . you should always try to put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that something could hurt you, it probably will hurt the other person, too.

 

10. Maybe . . . you should do something nice for someone every single day, even if it is simply to leave them alone.  

 

11. Maybe . . . giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but, if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours.

 

12. Maybe . . . happiness waits for all those who cry, all those who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of all the people who have touched their lives.

 

13. Maybe . . . you shouldn't go for looks; they can deceive; don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

 

14. Maybe . . . you should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy .

 

15. Maybe . . . you should try to live your life to the fullest because when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling but when you die, you can be the one who is smiling and everyone around you crying.

 

Be Gentle...

Bleak kisses Hopeless
Then my mind makes the turn
Healing rides upon black clouds
The stoning of my heart, suddenly dissipates
With a wise decision
Time heals all
Sometimes too fast
Many times too slow
Growth, is growth
Whether from triumphant moments
Or rash and foolish mistakes
Wisdom is not promised
Just as knowledge does not grant salvation
Bells ring as good prevails once more
Leaving a temporary emptiness
That washes away in the damp mist
My joyous future is on the horizon
While it also runs down my cheek
I listen to the voice of the world
Breathing in its wisdom
When suddenly the whisper comes
“Be Gentle”

kisses

Before you kissed me only winds of heaven
Had kissed me, and the tenderness of rain -
Now you have come, how can I care for kisses
Like theirs again?

I sought the sea, she sent her winds to meet me,
They surged about me singing of the south -
I turned my head away to keep still holy
Your kiss upon my mouth.

And swift sweet rains of shining April weather
Found not my lips where living kisses are;
I bowed my head lest they put out my glory
As rain puts out a star.

I am my love's and he is mine forever,
Sealed with a seal and safe forevermore -
Think you that I could let a beggar enter
Where a king stood before?

A Dog Named Faith This is a story about a dog who was born on Christmas Eve in 2002. He was born with 3 legs - 2 healthy hind legs and 1 abnormal front leg which needed to be amputated. He of course could not walk when he was born. Even his mother did not want him. He was rejected and scorned. Image Hosted by ImageShack.us
By curvaliciousbbw at 2009-02-16 His first owner also did not think that he could survive. Therefore, he was thinking of putting him to sleep.. At this time, his present owner Jude Stringfellow came into his life and wanted to take care of him. She was determined to teach and train this dog to walk by himself. She thought, all we need is a little faith. In the beginning, she put Faith on a surf board to let him feel the movements of the water. Later she used peanut butter on a spoon as a lure and to reward him for standing up and jumping around. Even the other dogs at home helped to encourage him to walk. Amazingly, after only 6 months, like a miracle, Faith learned to balance on his 2 hind legs and jumped to move forward. After further training in the snow, he can now walk like a human being. Image Hosted by ImageShack.us
By curvaliciousbbw at 2009-02-16 Faith loves to walk around now. No matter where he goes, he just attracts all the people around him. He is now becoming famous on the international scene. He has appeared in various newspapers and TV shows. There is even one book entitled 'With a little faith' being published about him. He was even considered to appear in one of Harry Potter movies. Image Hosted by ImageShack.us
By curvaliciousbbw at 2009-02-16 His present owner Jude Stringfellow has given up her teaching job and plans to take him around the world to preach, 'that even without a perfect body, one can have a perfect soul.' Image Hosted by ImageShack.us
By curvaliciousbbw at 2009-02-16 Image Hosted by ImageShack.us
By curvaliciousbbw at 2009-02-16 In life there are always undesirable things. Perhaps a person who feels things are not going as well as they could will feel better if they change their point of view and see things from another perspective. Perhaps this message will bring fresh new ways of thinking to everyone. Perhaps everyone can appreciate and be thankful for each beautiful day that follows and to look beneath the surface and see the true beauty that lies within someones soul!! Life is the continual demonstration of the power of thinking positive and having faith. Believe in yourself. Never lose faith.
Here's To the Lonely! It's Valentine's Day...funny how being alone is not a disease or a criminal offense but on this one day all of us who are alone are painfully reminded that we are somehow different or unique because we are not out buying chocolates and flowers and stressing over whether we are gonna get laid or not. Being alone is very hard. But it is also hard to be be stuck in an unfulfilling or loveless relationship. At 46 I believe that unless i can be loved for who I am that it's probably better for me to be by myself till I find the person who can. I reflected alot today on things. Not only is it Valentine's Day its my deceased mother's birthday. So many different emotions. Wondering about the parallels of our lives she and I. Wondering since she passed at the young age of 56 about my own mortality. Wondering why it is when you want to be loved so much that you tend to push it away when its offered. Of course trust is a big issue but I also think its having the capacity to "submit"(I'm sure to hear from all the dom's on this lol!)to the emotion. To allow yourself to feel it and embrace it. To know that you are worthy of it. To give in, let go, take a chance. Remember when you were younger the abandon you had? How your crush of the moment held your every waking and sleeping thought...that kind of feeling. I remember it. Never want to forget it either. I guess my point in this blog is to give a big virtual hug to all the rest of the people who are alone and here on fubar tonight. We are all ok. Its the rest of them who are crazy! Love ya guys!

The Pair

The Pair Robert Ellis Running Pair He and she Coats of white They live to be A matched set Mates for life Across frozen creeks And fields of white They fear no creature Great or small Side by side They defeat them all Love and devotion Bonded together in this life or the next Always forever Not just bodies But hearts mated too A pair of White Wolves Me...........and you

6/5/08...A milestone....

18 years ago.... "It's been a helluva year as I sit here wondering what this new life inside of me is gonna be like. Ive lost my grandmother and my mother is in the nursing home and being alone with a newborn child and no family other than my husband is gonna be scary as hell. What will he be like, will i be able to take care of him, will he love me? How will ever know what to do?" I remember it so vividly 18 years ago today, two days before the birth of my only child. I was scared to death. As i perch on the edge of his 18th year this Thursday I can tell you there is no one in the world I love more. It has been a helluva 18 years for us both. Lots of trials and tribulations but with one thing constant. The love we have for each other is undying and forever. Kyle has his issues as does any teenager. But has never been in trouble, no drugs or alcohol and in today's world that makes me so proud. I did something right..who would have thunk it? I have raised an amazingly bright, considerate, loving young man. He is equally unambitious and perpetually lazy lol but he is a man afterall lol! We mirror each other in so many ways that its eery. He has mom's sardonic wit and takes great joy in zinging me whenever he gets a chance. He is a gentle giant...6'4 and about 230 lbs size 14 shoe but in a heartbeat second would be ready to take on anyone who messes with me. I been trying to gear him up for life...with and without me since the day he was born. Parenthood is like being a mother robin. Taking great care till the day of ultimate loving when you push them from the nest to go about a life of adventure, mistakes and love and laughter on their own. I used to joke about the day he turned 18 how I was FREE finally! But i really dont want to be. My son is my hero, the person I wake up for everyday to face life, my reason for being, my ultimate accomplishment. He has done without much but has learned how to survive. Just as the baby robins are taught to survive by their mother. He will be a good man, an excellent father and a kind giving human being. What more can I ask for? I am so proud of him. When he was born i wondered "what the hell am i gonna do with him?".... Now I wonder..."What I'm gonna do when he flies?"... Happy Birthday baby! Mom

The Invitation

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life’s betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain! I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn’t interest me if the story you’re telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty even when its not pretty every day, and if you can source your life from God’s presence I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!” I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done for the children. It doesn’t interest me who you are, how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the Fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself, and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments. By Orion Mountain Dreamer, Indian

Thoughts about love...

When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if his or her happiness means that you’re not part of it. Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn’t love you, don’t be afraid to love someone else again, for you’ll never know unless you give it a try. You’ll never love a person you love unless you risk loving them. Love strives in hurting. If you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to love. Love doesn’t hurt all the time. Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don’t find love, let love find you. That’s why it’s called falling in love because you don’t force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past behind as you turn the pages in the book called life. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single kiss. It is a lifetimes venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves. When trying to fall out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection; to live is to risk dying; to hope is to risk failure. But the risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose your true self; to love is to risk not! to be loved in return. Defining "love": fall but do not stumble, beconstantbut not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that will always last a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving someone means giving him or her freedom so they can choose to be where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that those were the things that helped you grow. Loving someone means giving him or her the freedom to find his or her way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you’ll experience what true humanity is, and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you’re not ready to cry, if you’re not ready to take the risk, if you’re not ready to feel the pain, then you’re not ready to fall in love. There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, and then I finally figured out that’s why it’s called falling in love...
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