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Remember what this day is all about? Well here's to the skeptics and doubters that 9/11 was in fact an inside job. People, We must vote Independent. The two Party system is the problem!!! Here's the info. You decide for yourself. 1. Bush saw the first plane hit live on tv: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=4841608667647433773&q=bush+saw+1st+plane+hit+tower&hl=en 2. Rumsfeld Says Flight 93 was shot down: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=7171005197553914151&q=rumsfeld+flight+93+shot+down&hl=en 3. Rumsfeld Says Missle Hit Pentagon: "Here we're talking about plastic knives and using an American Airlines flight filled with our citizens, and the missile to damage this building and similar (inaudible) that damaged the World Trade Center" http://www.the7thfire.com/Politics%20and%20History/Missile-Not-Flight-77.html 4. NYC Mayor Slips- Knew Collpase in Advance: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hNmf76GUCw 5. SilverStein Admits WTC Was Pulled: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-7750532340306101329&q=Larry+silverstein 6. EyeWitness Said Missle, eh Plane Hit pentagon: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EA5AmFpQlJA 7. John Kerry Slips says WTC-7 Was Controlled Demolition: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KLnaogsm60A 8. Bush is scared: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6K5M0xtxQVQ 9.BBC Reported WTC-7 Collpased 26 minutes before it did. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7SwOT29gbc Why would the Govt Kill its own people on 9/11? They killed there own people so they would gain Power as a one world Government, A one world powerful evil They are now taking freedoms worldwide, as we lose freedoms, and they have more control. They targeted the U.S. Because they were the SuperPower of the World And needed Freedom Loving Americans To beg to give up there rights. The NWO is gaining More Power as We are also Moving towards a North American Union, Where Mexico, and Canada Would Merge Together. We are moving into a Dictaorship. In 1139 St Malachy Had a vision from God that we would have 112 Popes, We are at 111 Popes, with this pope being 80 years old. The next pope will be the 112th, and Is expected to be the false Prophet to welcome in the Antichrist of the NWO, The World Wide SuperPowerful Evil, As we move towards the end of the 6000 years as mankind has been on the earth. Why dont the media tell the truth? The Media is covering up 9/11 Because They are owned by 4 very corrupt Cooperations such as GE, AOL, DISNEY, Etc.., Which are profitting heavily from the Illegal Wars in the Middle East, They are also Under-Control of the NWO. When the Antichrist (Leader of the World Government) Takes Power of the WorldWide Dictaorship, The Media will be under Complete Control of Him. The Free Speech on the internet Will be Gone!! 9/11 Was carried out by the US GOVT & Osama W BUSH! I am going to give reasons proving The U.S. Govt did it, how they did it, and at the end I am going to give reasons why they did it. 1. Operation Northwoods, "N E W Y O R K, May 1, 2001 In the early 1960s, America's top military leaders reportedly drafted plans to kill innocent people and commit acts of terrorism in U.S. cities to create public support for a war against Cuba.": http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=92662&pa...id=92662&page=1 2. Alex Jones Called It: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-8116395518760933323&q=alex+jones+predict&hl=en 3. Bin Laden First Said He DID NOT DO IT! Fake Confession Tape? http://archives.cnn.com/2001/US/09/16/inv.binladen.denial/Also see #30 4. At least 4 hijackers turned up alive, but i heard as many as 9 http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/1559151.stm http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/1558669.stm 5. The melting Point of Steel is 3000F and Fire is around 500-700F with burning Jet fuel around 1200-1400F. Skeptics have claimed, Steel doesnt Have to melt, but only weaken to collpase, This May be true, HOWEVER, It would not make a 1/4 Mile High Skyscraper, Collapse in 9-10 Seconds. 10 seconds Per Floor Collpased, This is Impossible without Bombs. 6. An increase of 400% increase in put options on 9-6-01 and 9-7-01 on serveral airline stocks. An increase of 1100% Increase an in increase of put options on airline stocks on 9-10-01 http://www.hereinreality.com/insidertrading.html 7. FBI confinscated tapes at a nearby hotel and gas station minutes after the "plane" hit the pentagon. 8. Debris from the building was taken and illegally sold to china before anybody could really investigate. 9. If you watch the video of the towers coming down, You can notice bombs going off in the building. 10. Larry Silverstein Admitted blowing up WTC7 On a PBS Documentary. Skeptics Have Claimed He meant He was Pulling the Firefighters From the Building. Thats Funny, I thought When you call a person or persons "him" "them" or "em" not "it". Meanwhile The firefighters Were already Pulled from the Building 7 Houes before it Collpased. Skeptics Have Claimed, Well Maybe he did hit the Dynamite, But It takes severals weeks for them to carefully place explosives in a building. Call any Demolition Company. http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-7750532340306101329&q=Larry+silverstein 11. Larry Silverstein got High Insurance on WTC7 Including terrorism insurance. 12. 6 Months Before 9/11 They passed laws saying No pilots can carry guns, when pilots were allowed to carry guns for 40 years. (I am not sure this is 100% Accurate, I need to look into this more. Please Let me know if you find anything.) UPDATE: It was actually 2 months, not 6! http://www.worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=27647 13. As Charlie Sheen said, How can a plane make a 270 degree turn and drop 7000 feet in attitude in less then 2 minutes? 14. I heard it is impossible for cell phones to work on planes moving at 500mph and at 30000 Feet. 15. The "hijackers" said the wrong islamic message when approaching death. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9fbP1lvmBY8 16. Survivors and Eye witnesses Reporting seeing, hearing explosions. http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=2032865563019209801&q=9+11+FIREFIGHTERS&hl=en Laugh at the Firefighters!! 17. Thermite was found at the scene. BYU Professor Steve E. Jones Have tested Postive some substance for Thermite, It was later Proven to cut the Main Pillars in the World Trade Center. It was the yellow goowy substance Dripping From the towers as CNN, FOX, Etc reported on 9/11/01. Also There was MELTED steel at the bottom of the rubble, The Steel MELTED From the THERMITE, Fire jet fuel can NOT MELT steel. This Is the #1 Piece of Evidence Against our Government and I hope they are brought to Justice. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wVLeKwSkXA http://deseretnews.com/dn/view/0,1249,635198488,00.html 18. Janitor was offered Millions of dallors to shut up about the bombs he witnessed going off and he refused. First 5 minutes of the Video Below: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-2924291298456064986&q=american+scholars 19. Science Says Buildings Collasping CAN NOT fall at the speed of gravity unless Dynimite. http://www.ae911truth.org 20. In the New American Century Dick Cheney Said We need a new Pearl Harbor. "Further, the process of transformation, even if it brings revolutionary change, is likely to be a long one, absent some catastrophic and catalyzing event — like a new Pearl Harbor." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Project_for_the_New_American_Century 21. Less then 15 Million Was spend Investigating 9-11 and more then 65 Million on Clinton (Appox) 22. How can a 757 That is 129' Wide Make a 16' Hole? The Pentagon Collpased 30 minutes after impact, making the hole about 75'. Notice how you never see these clips from the media: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AiSg6_cMLgo http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a-_PKPUJqD8
Sunday, June 10, 2007 How to spot fake profiles, scammers, and spam bots Current mood: geeky Category: MySpace I know I have posted a similar blog about this but, some of my new readers may have not read back that far. As a regular blogger, I have noticed that every time I post a blog, my mailbox gets at least 3-4 fake profile e-mails. If you don't believe that, just post a "test" blog. Here are some tips that I have learned to tell if the e-mails are spam bots, scam artists or bogus profiles from folks in Africa: 1) Almost every single one of them have "professional" quality pics. 2) The body of the letter has a lot of grammatical errors and misspellings. 3) It is usually a very long letter. Some examples of the letter's contents are: A) A man talking about how his wife has passed away and he has to raise his child alone. B) They state they are contractors living abroad and are wanting contacts. (see below) C) Your picture has been chosen for a display in an airport. D) A job as a representative for a foreign company as US representative. 4) A yahoo contact name is almost always included as the last sentence. 5) While there is a pic of a male, the actual letter may say they are female. When you go to their profile, here are the things that I have noticed on almost all of them: 1) There is only the one pic. 2) The about me section is almost identical to the letter sent. 3) They usually only have about 3 friends if any. The friends look to be average everyday folks that might be very gullable. 4) Some even have links to an actual off myspace site. 5) They have no profile "decoration". 6) The sign up date is either recent or not been in use for a while. You can check a sign up date by going to the blog section. Even if there is no blog, when you go over to the blog, the sign up date will still be on the left side at the bottom of the standard blog box. When I first signed up for Myspace, I fell for one of the scams of the contractor living abroad. The pic was of an average looking white man with brown hair. The first letter wasn't a long one so, it didn't fit into my scam catagory. I think the first letter was, "I really liked your pics and profile. I would love to talk to you more as I am Oregon working overseas. Can we be penpals?" Since I do have friends who are contractors working in Iraq that I knew before Myspace, I knew that they have told me that it sometimes gets lonely much like the soldiers over there. We sent e-mails back and forth and we instant messasaged each other on yahoo. On day he said he was coming back to the US on furlough and wanted to call me. I gave him my cell phone number. About a week later, he called. The voice on the other end said his name. It really surprised me to hear a Nigerian accent. Like accents in the US, you can sort of figure out what part of the country they are from. To make a long story short, the man kept calling. It started to scare me. The authorities stated that since he was overseas, there really wasn't anything they could do legally to stop his harrassment like what could be done in the US. I eventually, had to get a new number. I hope this helps some of you to be aware of the tricks. The Goddess CoverDBabe The Goddess CoverDBabe It happened again! I went to check my mail and there was an e-mail that said, "MTV wanted me...." Inside the e-mail there were several links in it. FOLKS, If you get an e-mail from an unknown source or your friends that you know with links in it, DO NOT PUSH ON THE LINKS! If it is a friend of yours, let them know they have been phished! If it's an unknown source, go to the top right of the e-mail and report it as abuse/spam. Once you do that, the e-mail will automatically be deleted!~ Posted by The Goddess CoverDBabe on Sunday, June 10, 2007 at 2:42 PM The Goddess CoverDBabe Block User Bomex AND YET ANOTHER!!!! http://www.myspace.com/bomexuk Date: Jun 10, 2007 12:51 PM Flag as Spam or Report Abuse [ ? ] Subject: Work From Home Body: You got some wicked pics can i add you as friend please you might also be intrested in the website below free to sign up so dont need to pay i am a member from uk check it out can make some cash can ever set your amount until they send you a cheque nothing to lose all free http://www.cashcrate.com/250273 Posted by The Goddess CoverDBabe on Sunday, June 10, 2007 at 2:55 PM
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I want real men back too!!

The following blog is written by a very good friend of mine Jaz Mckay. He is a talk show host in Bakersfield, CA at KNZR. I am including this because I as a FEMALE do agree with what he has to say. We have become a nation of women. It wasn't always this way, of course. There was a time when men put their signatures to a document, knowing full well that this single act would result in their execution if captured, and in the forfeiture of their property to the State. Their wives and children would be turned out by the soldiers, and their farms and businesses most probably given to someone who didn't sign the document. There was a time when men went to their certain death, with expressions like "You all can go to hell. I'm going to Texas." (Davy Crockett, to the House of Representatives, before going to the Alamo.) There was a time when men went to war, sometimes against their own families, so that other men could be free. And there was a time when men went to war because we recognized evil when we saw it, and knew that it had to be stamped out. There was even a time when a President of the United States threatened to punch a man in the face and kick him in the balls, because the man had the temerity to say bad things about the President's daughter's singing. We're not like that anymore. Now, little boys in grade school are suspended for playing cowboys and Indians, cops and crooks, and all the other familiar variations of "good guy vs. bad guy" that helped them learn, at an early age, what it was like to have decent men hunt you down, because you were a lawbreaker. Now, men are taught that violence is bad -- that when a thief breaks into your house, or threatens you in the street, that the proper way to deal with this is to "give him what he wants", instead of taking a horsewhip to the rascal or shooting him dead where he stands. Now, men's fashion includes not a man dressed in a three-piece suit, but a tight sweater worn by a man with breasts. Now, warning labels are indelibly etched into gun barrels, as though men have somehow forgotten that guns are dangerous things. Now, men are given Ritalin as little boys, so that their natural aggressiveness, curiosity and restlessness can be controlled, instead of nurtured and directed. And then when our President, who happens to have been a qualified fighter pilot, lands on an aircraft carrier wearing a flight suit, and is immediately dismissed with words like "swaggering", "macho" and the favorite epithet of Euro girly-men, "cowboy". Of course he was bound to get that reaction -- and most especially from the Press in Europe, because the process of male wussification Over There is almost complete. How did we get to this? In the first instance, what we have to understand is that America is first and foremost, a culture dominated by one figure: Mother. It wasn't always so: there was a time when it was Father who ruled the home, worked at his job, and voted. But in the twentieth century, women became more and more involved in the body politic, and in industry, and in the media -- and mostly, this has not been a good thing. When women got the vote, it was inevitable that government was going to become more powerful, more intrusive, and more "protective" (ie. more coddling), because women are hard-wired to treasure security more than uncertainty and danger. It was therefore inevitable that their feminine influence on politics was going to emphasize (lowercase "s") social security. I am aware of the fury that this statement is going to arouse, and I don’t give a hoot. What I care about is the fact that since the beginning of the twentieth century, there has been a concerted campaign to denigrate men, to reduce them to figures of fun, and to render them impotent, figuratively speaking. I'm going to illustrate this by talking about TV, because TV is a reliable barometer of our culture. In the 1950s, the TV Dad was seen as the lovable goofball -- perhaps the beginning of the trend -- BUT he was still the one who brought home the bacon, and was the main source of discipline (think of the line: "Wait until your father gets home!"). From that, we went to this: the Cheerios TV ad. Now, for those who haven't seen this crap, I'm going to go over it, from memory, because it epitomizes everything I hate about the campaign to wussify men. The scene opens at the morning breakfast table, where the two kids are sitting with Dad at the table, while Mom prepares stuff on the kitchen counter. The dialogue goes something like this: Little girl (note, not little boy): Daddy, why do we eat Cheerios? Dad: Because they contain fiber, and all sorts of stuff that's good for the heart. I eat it now, because of that. LG: Did you always eat stuff that was bad for your heart, Daddy? Dad (humorously): I did, until I met your mother. Mother (not humorously): Daddy did a lot of stupid things before he met your mother. Now, every time I see that TV ad, I have to be restrained from shooting the TV with a .45 Colt. If you want a microcosm of how men have become less than men, this is the perfect example. What Dad should have replied to Mommy's little dig: Yes, Sally, that's true: I did do a lot of stupid things before I met your mother. I even slept with your Aunt Ruth a few times, before I met your mother. That's what I would have said, anyway, if my wife had ever attempted to castrate me in front of the kids like that. But that's not what men do, of course. What this guy is going to do is smile, finish his cereal, and then go and bang his secretary, who doesn't try to cut his nuts off on a daily basis. Then, when the affair is discovered, people are going to rally around the castrating witch called his wife, and call him all sorts of names. He'll lose custody of his kids, and they will be brought up by our ultimate modern-day figure of sympathy: The Single Mom. You know what? Some women deserve to be single moms. When I first started doing talk radio, I think my primary aim was to blow off steam at the stupidity of our society. Because I have fairly set views on what constitutes right and wrong, I have no difficulty in calling most liberal Democrats like Bill Clinton, for example, a bunch of liars and hypocrites. But most of all, I do talk radio the way I do it because I love being a man. Amongst other things, I talk about guns, self-defense, politics, beautiful women, sports, warfare, hunting, trucks, fast cars, and power tools -- all the things that being a man entails. All this stuff gives me pleasure. And it doesn't take much to see when all the things I love are being threatened: for instance, when Tim Allen's excellent comedy routine on being a man was reduced to a that stupid sitcom Home Improvement. The show should have been called Man Improvement, because that's what every single plotline entailed: turning a man into a "better" person, instead of just leaving him alone to work on restoring the vintage sports car in his garage. I stopped watching the show after about four episodes. ("The Man Show" was better, at least for the first few seasons -- men leering at chicks, men messing around with ridiculous games like "pin the bra on the boobies", men having beer-drinking competitions, and women on trampolines. Excellent stuff, only not strong enough. I gave up watching it, when Jimmy Kimmel and Adam Carrola left because it's plain that the idea had been subverted by girly-men, and turned into a parody of itself.) Finally, we come to the TV show which to my mind epitomizes everything bad about what we have become: Queer Eye For The Straight Guy. Playing on the Homo Channel, ooops I mean Bravo Channel, this piece of excrement has taken over the popular culture by storm (and so far, the only counter has been the wonderful South Park episode which took it apart for the utter CRAP it is). I'm sorry, but the premise of the show nauseates me. A bunch of homosexuals trying to "improve" ordinary men into something "better" (ie. more acceptable to women): changing the guy's clothes, his home decor, his music -- for GOD’S sake, what kind of girly-man would allow these simpering butt-bandits to change his life around? Yes, the men are, by and large, slobs. Big f-ing deal. Last time I looked, that's normal. Men are slobs, and that only changes when women try to civilize them by marriage. That's the natural order of things. You know the definition of homosexual men we used in Texas? "Men with small dogs who own very tidy apartments." Real men, on the other hand, have big damnd mean-ass dogs: Rhodesian ridgebacks, bull terriers and Rottweilers, or else working dogs like pointers or retrievers which go hunting with them and slobber all over the furniture. Women own lapdogs. Which is why women are trying to get dog-fighting and cock-fighting banned -- they'd ban boxing too, if they could -- because it's "mean and cruel". No shit, Shirley. Hell, I don't like the idea of fighting dogs, either, but I don't have a problem with men who do. Dogs and cocks fight. So do men. No wonder we have an affinity for it. My radio show has always been pretty damned popular with men, and in the beginning, this really surprised me, because I didn't think I was doing anything special. That's not what I think now. I have thousands of calls and e-mails from men saying stuff like "Yes! I agree! I was so angry when I read about [insert atrocity of choice], but I thought I was the only one." No, you're not alone, my friends, and nor am I. Out there, there is a huge number of men who are sick of it. We're sick of being made figures of fun and ridicule; we're sick of having girly-men like journalists, advertising agency execs and movie stars decide on "what is a man"; we're sick of women treating us like children, and we're really sick of girly-men politicians who pander to women by passing an ever-increasing raft of Nanny laws and regulations (the legal equivalent of public-school Ritalin), which prevent us from hunting, racing our cars and motorcycles, smoking, flirting with women at the office, getting into fistfights over women, shooting criminals and doing all the fine things which being a man entails. When Annika Sorenstam was allowed to play in that tournament on the men's PGA tour, all the men should have refused to play -- Vijay Singh was the only one with balls to stand up for a principle, and he was absolutely excoriated for being a "chauvinist". Bull!!! He wasn't a chauvinist, he was being a man. All the rest of the players -- Woods, and Mickleson, and the lot -- are girls by comparison. And, needless to say, Vijay isn't an American, nor a European, which is probably why he still has a pair hanging between his legs, and they're not hanging on the wall as his wife's trophy. Screw this, I'm sick of it. I don't see why I should put up with this nonsense any longer -- hell, I don't see why any man should put up with this any longer. I don't see why men should have become feminized, accept that we allowed it to happen -- and you know why we let it happen? Because it's just easier to do so. Unfortunately, we've allowed it to go too far, and our maleness has become too wussified for words. At this point, I could have gone two ways: the first would be to say, "...and I don't know if we'll get it back. The process has become too entrenched, the cultural transformation of men into little girls has become part of the social fabric, and there's not much we can do about it." But I'm not going to do that. To quote John Belushi (who was, incidentally, a real man): "Did we quit when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor?" Well, I'm not going to quit. Screw that. One of the characteristics of the non-wussified man (and this should strike fear into the hearts of women and girly-men everywhere) is that he never quits just because the odds seem overwhelming. Omaha Beach, guys. By God! I want a real man as President -- not an Al Gore type, who had to hire a consultant to show him how to be an Alpha male, and french-kiss his wife on live TV to "prove" to the world that he was a man, when we all knew that real men don't have to do that crap. Or John Kerry, who wouldn’t know a real battle scar if he ever saw one. A wimp who has to marry rich, domineering, butt ugly women to make him successful. And I want the Real Man President to surround himself with other Real Men, like Rumsfeld, and yes, Condi Rice (who is more of a Real Man than those numnuts Colin Powell and Norman Mineta). I want our government to be more like Dad -- kind, helpful, but not afraid to punish us when we screw up, instead of helping us excuse our actions. I want our government of real men to start rolling back the Nanny State, in all its horrible manifestations of over-protectiveness, intrusiveness and "Mommy Knows Best What's Good For You" regulations. I want our culture to become more male -- not the satirical kind of male, like The Man Show, or the cartoonish figures of Stallone, or Van Damme, or even Arnold. I mean there movies are harmless fun but hey, we want the REAL men back in movies. We want more John Waynes, Humphrey Bogarts, Robert Mitchums, Bruce Willises, and Clint Eastwoods. Never mind that it's simplistic -- we like simple, we are simple, we are men -- our lives are uncomplicated, and we like it that way. For example, We Were Soldiers was a great movie, and you know why? Because you could have cut out all the female parts, and it still would have been a great movie, because it was about Real Men. Try cutting out all the female parts in a Woody Allen movie -- you'd end up with the opening and closing credits. We absolutely loathe chick movies about feelings and relationships and all that feminine jive. I want our literature to become more male, less female. Men shouldn't buy "self-help" books unless the subject matter is car maintenance, golf swing improvement or how to disassemble a Browning shotgun. We don't improve ourselves, we improve our stuff. And finally, I want men everywhere to go back to being Real Men. To open doors for women, to drive fast cars, to smoke cigars after a meal, to get drunk occasionally and, in the words of Col. Jeff Cooper, one of the last of the Real Men: "to ride tall and proud, shoot straight, and speak the truth." In every sense of the word. We know what the word "is" means. Because that's all that being a Real Man involves. You don't have to become a cartoon male, either: I'm not going back to stoning women for adultery like those Muslim’s do, nor am I suggesting we support that perversion of being a Real Man, gangsta rap artists (those wimps -- they wouldn't last thirty seconds against a couple of genuine tough guys that I know). Speaking of rap music, do you want to know why more White boys buy that crap than Black boys do? You know why rape is such a problem on college campuses? Why binge drinking is a problem among college freshmen? It's a reaction: a reaction against being wussified. And I understand it, completely. Young males are aggressive, they do fight amongst themselves, they are destructive, and all this does happen for a purpose. Because only the strong men propagate. And women know it. You want to know why I know this to be true? Because powerful men still attract women. Women, even liberal women, swooned over George Bush in a naval aviator's uniform. Donald Trump still gets access to some of the most beautiful women available, despite looking like a medieval gargoyle. Donald Rumsfeld, if he wanted to, could sleep with 90% of all women over 50, and a goodly portion of younger ones too. And he won't. Because Rummy's been married to the same woman for fifty years, and he wouldn't toss that away for a quickie. He's a Real Man. No wonder the Euros hate and fear him. We'd better get more like him, we'd better become more like him, because if we don't, men will become a footnote to history.
"A human being is a part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feeling as something separated from the rest, a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty." Albert Einstein Each of our lives is a multitude of interconnecting pieces, not unlike a mosaic. What has gone before, what will come today, are at once and always entwined. The past has done its part, never to be erased. The present is always a composite. In months and years gone by, perhaps we anticipated the days with dread. Fearing the worst, often we found it; we generally find that which we fear. But we can influence the mosaic our experiences create. The contribution today makes to our mosaic can lighten its shade, can heighten its contrast, can make bold its design. What faces us today? A job we enjoy or one we fear? Growing pains of our children? Loneliness? How we move through the minutes, the hours, influences our perception of future minutes and hours. No moment is inviolate. Every moment is part of the whole that we are creating. We are artists. We create our present from influences of our past
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1) Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay. 2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR. Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there's a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you're trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts. 3) NOT SHAVING. We often forget we have a porcupine strapped to our chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it's not passion, it's avoidance. 4) SQUEEZING HER BREAST. Most of us act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them. 5) BITING HER NIPPLES. Why do we fasten onto a woman's nipples, then clamp down like we're trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can't stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good and a little nibbling is a turn on but pretending they're a dogie toy isn't. 6) TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES. Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thumb like you're trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points. 7) IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY. A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breastville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you've ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention. 8) GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED. Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you're going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off. 9) LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT. Condom disposal is our responsibility. You wore it, you store it. 10) ATTACKING THE CLITORIS. Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris. 11) STOPPING FOR A BREAK. Women, unlike men, don't pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she's not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not. 12) UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY. Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid's toy. 13) GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY. Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not. 14) BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA. Although most of us can find the clitoris without maps, we still believe that the vagina is where it's all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you're trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you're not careful, it can hurt - so don't get carried away. It's best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it. 15) MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY. You're attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not. 16) UNDRESSING PREMATURELY. Don't force the issue by stripping before she's at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it's just undoing a couple of buttons. 17) TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST. Wearing socks and underpants is the worst. Lose the socks atleast... fast. 18) GOING TOO FAST. When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool - she'll soon feel like an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts. 19) GOING TOO HARD. If you bash your great triangular hip bones into her thigh or stomach, the pain is equal to two weeks of horseback riding concentrated into a few seconds. 20) COMING TOO SOON. Every man's fear. With reason. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too. 21) NOT COMING SOON ENOUGH. It may appear to you that humping for an hour without climaxing is the mark of a sex god, but to her it's more likely the mark of a numb vagina. At least buy some intriguing wall hangings, so she has something to hold her interest while you're playing Marathon Man. 22) ASKING IF SHE HAS COME. You really ought to be able to tell. Most women make noise. But if you really don't know, don't ask. 23) PERFORMING ORAL SEX TOO GENTLY. Don't act like a giant cat at a saucer of milk. Get your whole mouth down there, and concentrate on gently rotating or flicking your tongue on her clitoris. 24) NUDGING HER HEAD DOWN. We persist in doing this until she's eyeball-to-penis, hoping that it will lead very swiftly to mouth-to-penis. All women hate this. It's about three steps from being dragged to a cave by their hair. If you want her to use her mouth, use yours; try talking seductively to her. 25) NOT SHAVING PT.2 We seem to like women to be shaved down below. That's fine. But women like that too. That doesn't mean you have to shave it bare (although, that would be nice), but at least keep it neat and trimmed. There's nothing that turns a girl off more than looking at a penis sticking out of a forest. When in doubt, ask her how she prefers her men to be. 26) NOT WARNING HER BEFORE YOU CLIMAX. Sperm probably tastes like sea water mixed with egg white. Not everybody likes it. When she's performing oral sex, warn her before you come so she can do what's necessary. 27) MOVING AROUND DURING FELLATIO. Don't thrust. She'll do all the moving during fellatio. You just lie there. And don't grab her head. 28) TAKING ETIQUETTE ADVICE FROM PORN MOVIES. In X-rated movies, women seem to love it when men ejaculate over them. In real life, it just means more laundry to do. 29) MAKING HER RIDE ON TOP FOR AGES. Asking her to be on top is fine. Lying there grunting while she does all the hard work is not. Caress her gently, so that she doesn't feel quite so much like the captain of a schooner. And let her have a rest. 30) ATTEMPTING ANAL SEX AND PRETENDING IT WAS AN ACCIDENT. This is how men earn a reputation for not being able to follow directions. If you want to put it there, ask her first. And don't think that being drunk is an excuse. 31) TAKING PICTURES. When we say, "Can I take a photo of you?" she'll hear the words "__to show my buddies." At least let her have custody of them. 32) NOT BEING IMAGINATIVE ENOUGH. Imagination is anything from drawing patterns on her back to pouring honey on her and licking it off. Fruit, vegetables, ice and feathers are all handy props; hot candle wax and permanent dye are a no no. 33) SLAPPING YOUR STOMACH AGAINST HERS. There is no less erotic noise. It's as sexy as a belching contest. 34) ARRANGING HER IN STUPID POSES. If she wants to do advanced yoga in bed, fine, but unless she's a Romanian gymnast, don't get too ambitious. Ask yourself if you want a sexual partner with snapped hamstrings. 35) LOOKING FOR HER PROSTATE. Read this carefully: Anal stimulation feels good for men because we have a prostate. Women don't. 36) GIVING LOVE BITES. It is highly erotic to exert some gentle suction on the sides of the neck, if you do it carefully. No woman wants to have to wear turtlenecks and jaunty scarves for weeks on end. 37) BARKING INSTRUCTIONS. Don't shout encouragement like a coach with a megaphone. It's not a big turn-on. 38) TALKING DIRTY. It makes you sound like a lonely magazine editor calling a 1-900 line. If she likes nasty talk, she'll let you know. 39) NOT CARING WHETHER SHE COMES. You have to finish the job. Keep on trying until you get it right, and she might even do the same for you. 40) SQUASHING HER. We generally weigh more than women, so if you lie on her a bit too heavily, she will turn blue. 41) THANKING HER. Never thank a woman for having sex with you. Your bedroom is not a soup kitchen.
http://www.paulstips.com/brainbox/pt/home.nsf/link/13082006-Understanding-the-games-people-play Understanding the Games People Play 14 August 2006 interesting book, for anyone who's interested in the psychology of human relationships, is Games People Play by Eric Berne. Dr Berne is a psychiatrist who developed the theory of transactional analysis, which looks at the ways people interact with one another. Specifically, he's interested in the psychological games people play. Berne thinks people's personalities are divided into three distinct egos - child, adult and parent. These are a simple as they sound: The child is representative of our personalities when we were children - needy, emotional, charming, creative and so on. The adult is our rational and objective side. The parent represents our parents (or their substitutes) and the behaviors and attitudes we felt they had towards us when we were children. It is the interaction of these parts of our personality with the equivalent child, adult and parent in others that make up our relationships. Often, when we are interacting with others, there can be two conversations going on at the same time - our adult can give the impression of talking to their adult, when in fact it's our parent who's talking to their child. Often, these interactions, or transactions as Berne calls them, are normal everyday parts of life. We all need to relate to one another to get along in the world, after all. What he's most interested in, and has spent a long time documenting, aren't these normal interactions - but what he calls "games". He defines such games as "an ongoing series of complementary ulterior transactions progressing to a well-defined, predictable outcome". They are a series of interactions between people that are superficially plausible, but contain some kind of hidden motive. The ultimate aim of the primary player in such games is to achieve some sort of payoff - usually some kind of emotional reward. The early moves are set up so as to maximize the likelihood of this payoff being achieved. The use of the word "games" should not give the impression that such activities are necessarily fun or played light-heartedly. Often the outcomes, though predictable, can be very damaging and distressing. Once these types of games are pointed out , most people get an "ah-ha" moment when they realize just how much of their own lives are tied up in playing them. Probably the easiest way to understand this theory is to read some examples. I've summarized some of the ones I think are most interesting below. The main player is code-named White in each example, with the secondary player known as Black. If you want more details consult Dr Berne's book. Alcoholic Berne doesn't delve too much into the question of whether alcoholism is a disease or a choice. He simply points out that it often takes the form of a game, with the central character (White) playing the Alcoholic. It's generally a five-player game, although it can be condensed into only two-players if necessary. The lead-supporting character (Black) takes the role of Persecutor, typically played by a member of the opposite sex such as a spouse. The third role is that of Rescuer - played by a family friend, a doctor, or a member of AA. Often, these interactions take the form of White being convinced not to have a drink for six months, after which they congratulate each other before White resumes his hard-drinking ways. Some rescuers, such as AA, actually publish rules of the game (take a drink before breakfast etc.) making it easier for beginners to get started. The forth role is the Patsy, someone who believes in White and often gives him money to continue playing. This is often filled by White's mother. Usually, White must provide the Patsy with some plausible reason for needing the money other than drinking, but really they both know what it's for. The fifth role is the Connexion, which is the professional role of bartender or liquor-store clerk. He is the source of supply and knows how to communicate with alcoholics. The payoff for White, according to Berne, does not come from the enjoyment of liquor. While such enjoyment exists, it's little more than an pleasurable side-effect of playing the game. The finale of a round comes at the point of the hangover. This is where the reward is obtained, which is ultimately to gain forgiveness from Black. The situation is set-up so White's internal child can be scolded by Black's internal parent, as well as other parental figures who happen to be around and are willing to oblige, before ultimately being forgiven. Rapo This is a game in which a woman (White) and a man (Black) are the main players. It can be played with varying degrees of intensity. First-degree Rapo involves White mildly flirting with Black, signalling she is available and interested. Once he's committed himself to the pursuit, the game is over and White has won. The payoff is being found attractive. In second-degree Rapo, the payoff comes not from the compliment, but from the enjoyment of rejecting Black's advances ("Buzz off Buster"). White leads him into a much more serious commitment, and enjoys watching his discomfort at being rejected. Third-degree Rapo ends in a false accusation of rape. White leads Black into a compromising physical position before claiming criminal assault or permanent psychological damage. She usually involves a number of other players at this stage. Black is often a willing participant in these transactions, playing a version of another of Berne's games - Kick me. The aim of Kick Me is to prove your misfortunes are greater than anybody else's, and thus gain sympathy. It's a type of inverse-pride at being the worst-off. Cops and Robbers The childhood prototype of this game is hide-and-seek. An important part of hide-and-seek is not just the hiding, but the getting caught. If you're not eventually found then the game ceases to be enjoyable. Berne points out that many criminals seem to get as much, or more, satisfaction from outwitting the authorities as they do from the actual adult gains of crime, such as money. It's the thrill of the chase that drives them ("Catch me if you can"). The criminal (White) who plays cops and robbers is usually in it for the game, rather than the financial rewards. He rarely does well out of his crooked acts, and when he does it's usually because of luck rather than skill. An example is a burglar who engages in inefficient and unnecessary acts during the crime - such as vandalism or leaving a calling-card. Another is the shoplifter who disposes of the stolen goods immediately after obtaining them. The ultimate payoff, strange as it may seem, is the excitement of being caught - just as with the child in hide-and-seek. White may make it easy or difficult for the cops, but ultimately he's disappointed if he isn't caught. Schlemiel The structure of this game is for White to make a mess and eventually be forgiven for doing so by Black. Its underlying idea is "I can be destructive, get away with it, and obtain forgiveness". An example might be at a party held by Black. White deliberately spills red wine on the carpet. Black is very angry, but senses that if he shows it, White wins. White says: "I'm sorry". Black forgives him. White moves on to damage something else and the game starts again. Black is often not the sucker he pretends to be in this game. He often gains satisfaction by showing admirable self-restraint. This is why the friendship may continue, even though at the adult-level Black can be seen as a victim who would be better off without White's company. Now I've got you, you son of a bitch This is the equivalent of a poker game in which White gets dealt an unbeatable hand. He now becomes more interested in the fact that Black is completely at his mercy, than in the financial gain he may receive. Here's an example from real life: White contracts a mechanic (Black) to fix his car. The entire cost is agreed in advance. When Black submits his bill, there's an extra charge for something that hadn't been agreed to. White goes to Black's garage and fumes at him, making gross attacks against his character and integrity. White feels completely justified in doing this, as technically he's in the right. He could have dealt with the situation with a calm adult negotiation, but that's not the point of the game. While White vented an amazing amount of anger at the petty mistake made by Black, he was secretly delighted to have been given the chance to do so. His entire life he's actively sought-out such small injustices, simply so he can exploit them to enrage himself and insult others. The payoff is in feeling superior and being allowed to release anger. Black is not always an unwilling victim of this, and is often playing a version of Kick Me. Often, he's recognized White as a player of "Now I've got you you son of a bitch" and deliberately provoked him into finishing the game. Link to original article: http://www.paulstips.com/brainbox/pt/home.nsf/link/13082006-Understanding-the-games-people-play
Title: Children of Alcoholics: Getting Past the Games Addicted Parents Play Author: Lisa Turney Publisher: Do It Now Foundation Publication Date: February 2007 Catalog Number: 808 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ..'Family' Values It's sometimes called the "three-generation" disease, passed from parent to children to grandchildren, like red hair or freckles. But it's way more serious than that, and it doesn't seem to be going away. According to the best estimates, about one in eight Americans -- more than 30 million of us -- are products of alcoholic homes. And the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse & Alcoholism says that 6.6 million kids are living with an alcoholic parent right now. What's life like for them? Well, it doesn't look like the families in Norman Rockwell paintings or feel much like the Baileys in "It's a Wonderful Life." More often, it's like an endless marathon of "Married With Children" episodes, where growing up is a constant struggle to cope with disappointment and stress and embarrassment. It's a place where a kid's needs are often down-played or ignored, and family life centers on the psychological "games" of the drinking parent. Consider: 55 percent of all family violence occurs in alcoholic homes. Incest is twice as likely among daughters of alcoholics than their peers. Children of alcoholics are three to four times more likely to become alcoholic than the general population. 50 percent of children of alcoholics marry an alcoholic; 70 percent develop a pattern of compulsive behavior as an adult, including alcoholism, drug abuse, and overeating. And no statistic can measure the psychological pain that children of alcoholics grow up with and often carry into adulthood. Until recently, children of alcoholics weren't even considered all that different from other kids with problems. Often, they were ignored by treatment programs, which focused on the alcoholic parent. Now that's changing. Today, professionals recognize the special problems and needs of children of alcoholics (or COA's), and family therapy has become a big part of alcoholism rehabilitation. And treating the problem -- rebuilding self-esteem and relearning to communicate and trust and love -- begins with identifying what, exactly, went wrong in the first place. The Alcoholic Family One reason identifying children of alcoholics can be so difficult is that many kids -- maybe even most kids -- don't like to admit that there are troubles at home. That's because denial can play as big a role in the life of an alcoholic family as it does in the process of alcoholism itself. When a drinking parent denies that drinking is a problem, kids usually learn pretty fast that one thing that's virtually guaranteed to cause upset is for them to talk about it -- or even think about it much, at all. The conflict that comes from denying the obvious and the struggle to keep up appearances for outsiders can trigger emotional tremors for COA's that can reverberate for years. Common problems can include: Guilt. The child suspects that he or she somehow caused the parent's drinking. Anxiety. Fear of arguments or violence can cause constant worry and emotional hypervigilance. Embarrassment. The child is ashamed of the family "secret" and withdraws from friends or other family members. Confusion. A drinking parent's mood swings and unpredictability can cause uncertainty and inner turmoil in the child about what to do next. Inability to Trust. Repeated disappointments and broken promises by an alcoholic parent can make it hard for a child to trust and develop close bonds with others. Anger. The child usually resents the drinking parent and may transfer the anger to the non-drinking parent for lack of support and protection. Depression. Feelings of loneliness and helplessness are common -- and almost inevitable. In an alcoholic family, a child's need for love, support, and emotional nurturing is often minimized or forgotten altogether in the endless tug-of-war between the family and alcoholism. And with few role models for demonstrating how emotions can be expressed positively, the child adapts to chaos in order to survive. The Family Drama The constant hurt and confusion of the alcoholic household often reveals itself in children protecting themselves by lying, suppressing feelings, and withdrawing from close relationships. Having learned these defenses in adolescence, children of alcoholics tend to repeat them in adulthood, usually without realizing the connection. One leading therapist, Dr. Claudia Black, says that children from alcoholic homes tend to adopt a distinct role within the family. Dr. Black, a COA herself and national advocate for children's rights, cites four common roles that recur in alcoholic households: Responsible Child: Some kids assume the role of the parent, by feeding and caring for younger brothers and sisters. Adjuster Child: Here, kids simply accept whatever behavior a drinking parent dishes out. Many hide and become quiet and withdrawn. Acting-Out Child: Some children assume blame for their parent's drinking and deflect attention from family problems by creating problems of their own at home and school. Placater Child: These kids ignore their own unhappiness to comfort others. Some become family clowns and try to cover problems with jokes. According to Dr. Black, children of alcoholics can become such experts at playing their roles that they often create situations as adults where they continue to act out the family drama. This strong role identification, she argues, is one reason that many adult children of alcoholics marry problem drinkers. The Healing Process Probably the most difficult step in the healing process is the first one -- for the child to openly identify the problem and begin to talk about his or her sadness and anger. Out of love or fear, most children try to keep family problems a secret. Believing that they're the ones with the problem and may even be somehow to blame, children with drinking parents often hide behind a wall of denial and defensiveness. Identifying a child of an alcoholic usually involves little more than close observation of changes or extremes in the child's behavior. A number of behavioral signs can warn of a parental drinking problem, including: School absences or truancy Withdrawal from classmates and friends Frequent illness or physical complaints Drug or alcohol abuse Overly aggressive play Delinquent behavior Under-achievement in school Emotional distance from peers Once a child of an alcoholic is identified and begins to confront his or her suppressed guilt and fears, the real process of recovery can begin. Since learning about the dynamics of alcoholism is important to the process, many therapists recommend such self-help programs as Al-Anon, Children of Alcoholics, or Adult Children of Alcoholics. Some recommend dietary changes (especially low-sugar diets), and such stress-reduction techniques as meditation, aerobics, and visualization or affirmation exercises. Still, whatever form treatment takes, children of alcoholics need to develop a healthy sense of self-esteem -- free of guilt, fear, and blame -- to see themselves as okay even when those around them may not be. It might seem like a cliché, but before any of us can ever really trust and love others, we really do have to learn to love and trust ourselves. Pushing Past the Past Perhaps the biggest he biggest trap that children of alcoholics can fall into is to see themselves -- ourselves, since I'm one, too -- as victims of horrible junk that's basically beyond our control and will somehow always keep us trapped. That's not only self-defeating; it isn't even true. Once you learn to see the past for what it is, past, and the present for what it is, a present, you're not going to find a good reason to be stopped by anything at all -- especially mom or dad's problem or our memories of it. Each of us may have had to grow up playing our parents' games, questioning our value, living in the shadow of alcoholism or chemical dependency. But that doesn't mean we're stuck there. And even if we did learn to pretend that things were fine when they weren't, it's okay to stop pretending now. How? By telling the truth about who we are and where we've been, and accepting and caring for ourselves -- starting now, if you haven't started already. There never has been -- and never will be -- a better time to put the past in its place. So why wait? Sidebar: If Your Mom or Dad Drinks Too Much... Some of the things we've talked about in this pamphlet may sound familiar. In fact, if one of your parents is an active alcoholic, it may describe what's going on in your family right now. If that's the case, you're due for some good news, and here it is: There are things you can do to help clear up the problem. Step 1: The first thing to do is to realize that you aren't alone. Millions of kids have been through the same problem and have felt the same fears. These kids (many of them adults now) have been where you are and know what you're feeling, and they know how to help. Step 2: The next thing to do is to tell someone. If you have a cool teacher or friend or a favorite aunt or uncle, talk with them and don't hold back. Even though it might seem easier and safer to keep things a secret, what really hurts you over the long term is keeping problems stuffed inside yourself. Others understand and they can help. Step 3: The last thing to do if you're the child of an alcoholic is to realize that it's not your fault. Your parents may love you, but your parents have a problem. The best way you can help them is to help yourself. Call a local Al-Anon or AlaTeen chapter (they're listed in the white pages of the phone book) or write the Children of Alcoholics Foundation, 540 Madison Avenue, New York, NY 10022. For immediate referral to services in your area, call the Boys Town National Hotline at 1-800-448-3000. And do it now. Drinking or drugs may be your family's problem today, but they don't have to be a problem forever. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ..Getting Help If you're worried about your drinking and you haven't been able to cut back or control it on your own, help is nearby. Check the phone book for an alcohol information center or treatment program. The people there can tell you where and how to get help. It's never too early-or too late-to start. If you can't find an alcohol information center in your area, phone or write either (or both) of the following: The National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence 12 West 21st Street New York, NY 10010 (800) 622-2255 Alcoholics Anonymous P.O. Box 459, Grand Central Station New York, NY 10163 Just do it -- and do it now. There'll never be a better time to get your life back on track. Here's looking at you, kid -- and at the person you can still become. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ..Sidebar | Bouncing Back: Reasons & Resources Problem drinking touches more lives -- and wrecks more families -- than you might think. According to a recent study by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services... 76 million Americans (43 percent of the adult population) report alcoholism in their families. 18 percent say they grew up with an alcoholic or problem drinker. 38 percent of U.S. adults have at least one blood relative with a drinking problem. And the problem doesn't end with simple drinking. Physical and sexual abuse are both linked to problem drinking, as are higher rates of divorce, homicide, and suicide. What's the solution? There are a lot of different solutions, according to experts, and they all begin with those affected taking responsibility for ending the problem. If problem drinking is a problem for you or someone you care about, do something to stop it now. Contact the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence at 1-800-622-2255 or a local chapter of Alcoholics Anonymous (check the White Pages of your phone book). And do it now. Problem drinking is a problem that's wasted too many lives for too long. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is one in a series of publications on drugs, behavior, and health by Do It Now Foundation. Please call or write for a complete list of available titles, or check us out online at www.doitnow.org. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
How to attract an Aries (meaning how to attract me) Category: Goals, Plans, Hopes How to attract an Aries If you're looking to meet an Aries, remember they are social, energetic people. As a result, they can often be found at a variety of social events, playing sports, or working for the causes they believe in. You may want to try getting involved in a local volunteer group or joining an amateur athletic team. Once you've met and set your sights on an Aries, you can get them to notice you by: Exhibiting independence. Show them that you can think for yourself. Being spontaneous and courageous. Suggest an adventurous outing together on the fly. Engaging them in friendly competition. You get bonus points if they win. Being assertive, not easy. They enjoy the challenge of a hard-to-get love interest. Work on your physique. A Ram loves to see strength in their partner. But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by: Making them wait. Arians have a lot going on and don't like to waste time. Giving them unsolicited advice. They're pretty sure they know what's right on their own. Letting them beat you too easily in competition. They like to win, but they also like to see you try your best.
WHEN WWIII REALLY STARTED!!!!!!!! A must read historical account of Terrorism against the U.S outraged1.jpgPhotobucket - Video and Image Hosting> This is not very long, but very informative. You have to read the catalogue of events in this brief piece. Then, ask yourself how anyone can take the position that all we have to do is bring our troops home from Iraq, sit back, reset the snooze alarm, go back to sleep, and no one will ever bother us again. In case you missed it, World War III began in November 1979... that alarm has been ringing for years. joe-Wake-Up.gifPhotobucket - Video and Image Hosting> US Navy Captain Ouimette is the Executive Officer at Naval Air Station, Pensacola, Florida. Here is a copy of the speech he gave last month. It is an accurate account of why we are in so much trouble today and why this action is so necessary. AMERICA NEEDS TO WAKE UP! That's what we think we heard on the 11th of September 2001 (When more than 3,000 Americans were killed) and maybe it was, but I think it should have been "Get Out of Bed!" In fact, I think the alarm clock has been buzzing since 1979 and we have continued to hit the snooze button and roll over for a few more minutes of peaceful sleep since then. It was a cool fall day in November 1979 in a country going through a religious and political upheaval when a group of Iranian students attacked and seized the American Embassy in Tehran. This seizure was an outright attack on American soil; it was an attack that held the world's most powerful country hostage and paralyzed a Presidency. The attack on this sovereign U. S. embassy set the stage for events to follow for the next 25 years. America was still reeling from the aftermath of the Vietnam experience and had a serious threat from the Soviet Union when then, President Carter, had to do something. He chose to conduct a clandestine raid in the desert. The ill -fated mission ended in ruin, but stood as a symbol of America 's inability to deal with terrorism. America's military had been decimated and down sized/right sized since the end of the Vietnam War. A poorly trained, poorly equipped and poorly organized military was called on to execute a complex mission that was doomed from the start. Shortly after the Tehran experience, Americans began to be kidnapped and killed throughout the Middle East. America could do little to protect her citizens living and working abroad. The attacks against US soil continued. In April of 1983 a large vehicle packed with high explosives was driven into the US Embassy compound in Beirut. When it explodes, it kills 63 people. The alarm went off again and America hit the Snooze Button once more. Then just six short months later in 1983 a large truck heavily laden down with over 2500 pounds of TNT smashed through the main gate of the US Marine Corps headquarters in Beirut and 241 US servicemen were killed. America mourns her dead and hit the Snooze Button once more. Two months later in December 1983, another truck loaded with explosives is driven into the US Embassy in Kuwait , and America continues her slumber. The following year, in September 1984, another van was driven into the gate of the US Embassy in Beirut and America slept. Soon the terrorism spreads to Europe. In April 1985 a bomb explodes in a restaurant frequented by US soldiers in Madrid. Then in August 1985 a Volkswagen loaded with explosives is driven into the main gate of the US Air Force Base at Rhein-Main Germany, 22 are killed and the snooze alarm is buzzing louder and louder as US interests are continually attacked. Fifty-nine days later in 1985 a cruise ship, the Achille Lauro is hijacked and we watched as an American in a wheelchair is singled out of the passenger list and executed. The terrorists then shift their tactics to bombing civilian airliners when they bomb TWA Flight 840 in April of 1986 that killed 4 and the most tragic bombing, Pan Am Flight 103 over Lockerbie, Scotland in 1988, killing 259. Clinton treated these terrorist acts as crimes; in fact we are still trying to bring these people to trial. These are acts of war! The wake up alarm is getting louder and louder. The terrorists decide to bring the fight to America. In January 1993, two CIA agents are shot and killed as they enter CIA headquarters in Langley, Virginia. The following month, February 1993, a group of terrorists are arrested after a rented van packed with explosives is driven into the underground parking garage of the World Trade Center in New York City. Six people are killed and over 1000 are injured. Still this is a crime and not an act of war? The Snooze alarm is depressed again. Then in November 1995 a car bomb explodes at a US military complex in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia killing seven service men and women. A few months later in June of 1996, another truck bomb explodes only 35 yards from the US military compound in Dhahran , Saudi Arabia. It destroys the Khobar Towers, a US Air Force barracks, killing 19 and injuring over 500. The terrorists are getting braver and smarter as they see that America does not respond decisively. They move to coordinate their attacks in a simultaneous attack on two US embassies in Kenya and Tanzania .. These attacks were planned with precision. They kill 224. America responds with cruise missile attacks and goes back to sleep. The USS Cole was docked in the port of Aden, Yemen for refueling on 12 October 2000, when a small craft pulled along side the ship and exploded killing 17 US Navy Sailors. Attacking a US War Ship is an act of war, but we sent the FBI to investigate the crime and went back to sleep. And of course you know the events of 11 September 2001. Most Americans think this was the first attack against US soil or in America. How wrong they are. America has been under a constant attack since 1979 and we chose to hit the snooze alarm and roll over and go back to sleep. In the news lately we have seen lots of finger pointing from every high officials in government over what they knew and what they didn't know. But if you've read the papers and paid a little attention I think you can see exactly what they knew. You don't have to be in the FBI or CIA or on the National Security Council to see the pattern that has been developing since 1979. The President is right on when he says we are engaged in a war. I think we have been in a war for the past 25 years and it will continue until we as a people decide enough is enough. America needs to "Get out of Bed" and act decisively now. America has been changed forever.. We have to be ready to pay the price and make the sacrifice to ensure our way of life continues. We cannot afford to keep hitting the snooze button again and again and roll over and go back to sleep. After the attack on Pearl Harbor, Admiral Yamamoto said "... it seems all we have done is awakened a sleeping giant." This is the message we need to disseminate to terrorists around the world. Support Our Troops and support President Bush for having the courage, political or militarily, to address what so many who preceded him didn't have the backbone to do both Democrat and Republican. This is not a political thing to be hashed over in an election year this is an AMERICAN thing. This is about our Freedom and the Freedom of our children in years to come. Win-1.jpgPhotobucket - Video and Image Hosting> If you believe in this please forward it to as many people as you can especially to the young people and all those who dozed off in history class and who seem so quick to protest such a necessary military action. If you don't believe it, just delete it and go back to sleep. Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting
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