JiMmY KoMeT's blog: "relationships"

KNOWLEDGE IS A WEAPON, KINDNESS CAN TURN AWAY RAGE, A LIGHT HEARTED RESPONSE, OR EVEN APATHETIC ONE WILL SUBDUE RAGE AND CONFUSE A BULLY BECAUSE YOU ARE DEVIATING FROM THE PATTERN THEY HAVE GROWN COMFORTABLE WITH. KNOWLEDGE-WHY IS A BULLY A BULLY? OUT OF THEIR OWN INSECURITIES, INADEQUACIES, AND FEAR. A BULLY IS A JEALOUS PERSON. THE PAYOFF MUST EXIST, OR THE BULLY WILL NOT BE FULFILLED AND MOVE ON TO OTHER EASIER TARGETS. YOU ENCOUNTER A VERBAL ATTACK ONLINE. CLEARLY THE BULLY LIVES WITH PAIN AND GETS RELIEF IN UPSETTING YOU. WHAT IF YOU CHANGED TACTICS? RESPOND LIKE A MATURE AND KIND ADULT. "I WISH I COULD CHANGE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT ME OR CHANGE THE LANGUAGE YOU USE TO REFERENCE ME. I FORGIVE YOU. BUT, LIKE EVERYONE ELSE, I NEED RESPECT. SO YOUR PERSISTENCE IN HARRASSING ME ONLY MAKES ME FEEL THAT YOU MUST REALLY HURT INSIDE-I WISH I COULD HELP YOU. THE WORDS YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO INTIMIDATE ME ARE WORDS THAT I WILL NO LONGER RESPOND TO. NOTHING YOU COULD SAY WILL EVER UPSET ME AGAIN. AND GUESS WHAT, MY WORDS WILL BE KIND IN RETURN AND REFLECT THE SYMPATHY I FEEL FOR WHAT MADE YOU THIS WAY. SO NOW IF YOULL EXCUSE ME YOU WILL HAVE TO MAINTAIN THAT DEMEANOR SERVERAL TIMES USUALLY BEFORE THE BULLY MOVES ON. THEY DO LOSE INTEREST BECAUSE YOU ARE NO MORE FUN TO UPSET ANYMORE. THEY ARE UNSUCCESSFUL GETTING YOU GOING, NO PAYOFF EXISTS AND THEY MUST LOOK ELSEWHERE. YOU ALWAYS ACT LIKE YOU FEEL SORRY FOR THEM AND THE PAIN THEY ARE IN=EVEN WHEN THE DENY PAIN, YOU ONLY MADE SURE THEY COME TO SEE IT--IT CAN BE A PROGRESSIVE THING ONE DAY I WILL WRITE ABOUT HOW I DEALT WITH BULLIES, BY USING THE SPORT OF BOXING.

NO ONE AT FUBAR HAS EVERHAD A CRUSH ON ME. I GUESS IT DOESNT MEAN ANYTHING REALLY, BUT STILL, NOT EVEN ONE. DO U SUPPOSE I'LL LIVE? MY LIFE MIGHT BE IN THE RIGHT PERSONS HANDS AT THIS MOMENT. I AM UNLOVED AND SMELL LIKE CHEESE I GUESS BOOHOOO LOL JIMMY

IN THE NAME OF RINGO STAR, I NEED A LITTLE HELP WITH FROM MY FRIENDS. I HAVE A VISION. THAT ALL MEN ARE CREATED EQUAL.. NO...WRONG VISION I HAVE A VISION OF A LOUNGE. AN INCREDIBLE PLACE WHERE ALL ARE WELCOME, THE TUNES ARE PLAYED ACCORDING TO STRATEGY AND REQUESTS, THE CHATTING NEVER DRIES UP. A PLACE WHERE A SPECIAL GREETER ISNT NEEDED, CUZ EVERYONE OFFERS A SPECIAL GREETING. I KNOW HOW TO MAKE THIS HAPPEN. I HAVE EXPERIENCE IN THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY AND A VERY EXCITING TIME LYING JUST AHEAD. I LIKE TO PLAY. I LIKE AND, MORE IMPORTANTLY, KNOW HOW TO HAVE FUN. EVEN A BAREWALL BAR CAN BE AWESOME WHEN AWESOME PEOPLE ARE THERE TO TALK TOO SO CMON ALL U AWESOME AND TALENTED PEOPLE WHO AGREED TO BE MY FRIENDS (OBLIGATED HA) GO TO MY LOUNGE AND SUBSCRIBE THEN LEAVE. COME BACK IN A FEW DAYS,AND THEN A FEW DAYS LATER. WITNESS IT HAPPEN CLICK IT BABY http://fubar.com/new_lounge.php?w=1&lid=59673

smile if only for awhile it shows you have taste it show you have style it brightens any room it chases away all gloom it is not so outrageous to think a smile is contagious i think of you and the symptoms begin before i know it i a have a grin i cant help the way i feel if i could, leaving u alone would be no big deal you make my heart beat faster like i am headed for one happy disaster dont ask me to explain

Another day has passed us by I have more to say Because I never lie 4 u I write a poem almost every day I have no idea what it will say But it will be different I have more than one way I write poems, because someone special thinks they’re okay It is in her interest I will stay She bid the highest, and I made a promise I will obey It may seem stupid and it may seem dumb To sit and write for my number one I have to admit, I have a little fun I hope she has many favorites, when we are done. Well that concludes today’s words of rhyme They will be posted much of the time I hope that is something you don’t mind But, I didn’t think so, u r so kind Have another great day It is a choice we make It is reality, just our take Bad thngs happen But only we decide If they stop our world Or we can let it slide So when bad things srike all of the time Look for the good, You’ll be surprised at what u find Cya Jimmy

Who Me?   Yes, Me i was born in Southeast Ohio Where my ability comes from I just cant don’t know I very different than some If it means something to my master Who paid a heavy price for me I will do my best to please her and I will do it faster She is not only my owner, but something special 2 c She has such a big heart And she is so kind I will be always be her friend like i have been since the start She is not even sure what services I can provide Whatever I do will come from the inside. I seem to have a knack to write I can write her poems that she might love I will write pomes, even if It takes all night I have to go beyond and above I have three kids, 2 girls and a boy They are ages 13, 9 and 10 They are gifted and bring my life such joy I cant think of my life now without them I had an epiphany in 2004 It woke me from a deep sleep This had never happened b4 And the impression it left went deep Everything I had been doing wrong as a parent Was suddenly visible to me as clear as day My mistakes became so apparent That I changed my behavior the very next day. Yes, Me Will be continued tomorrow, as it seems to work well I always leave a story with a little sorrow Caused by anticipation. It ,makes the reader’s interest swell. If they are eager to read Then they will appreciate my method Every day, more is what they will need To fill their head So look tomorrow for much more It hasn’t got interesting yet There is so much in store You will have it all, and that is a safe bet But you must wait Not long, it will not be late --Jimmy Komet

AT about 2:00AM I had a surge of energy and woke from a deep sleep. I was trembling, suddenly, my thoughts were directed toward my behavior as a dad. It became so apparent the mistakes I have made and the changes i needed to make. I realized that lying even about insignificant things is a cage. The truth is easier to remember. So, I purged and confessed the wrongs and sought forgiveness from those I mistreated. It was like freeing up space on my harddrive. Honesty is important to me, and I am a human lie detector. I have studied human behavior well before I began working toward a bachelor's degree in that field. I also treasure modesty. Wisdom can not be fully acheived if pride controls behavior. I am also well into learning how to speak and communicate in Spanish. I have interests in the Carib and need to be able to communicate/negotiate in both languages. Finally, I choose to believe. I believe. I believe because i have external evidence to support what I believe, but it ony supplements what I believe. I control the dialogue in my head. Nothing is beyond my reach-except singing maybe. I have done well enough in business that I can pursue more exotic professions. I believe with the same certainty that my last director had in his voice when he told me, Just try, and yes, you will make it" He even inquired where I had been, I should have been discovered a long time ago....i put this in just after that whole bit on modesty. but it is fact. and if the truth is a tool to use for my advantage, then self promotion is a necessary evil. Whatever happened almost 4 years ago to the day, has changed me forever. I am a good father and kids warm up to me very quickly. (im not pushy). I want to get a significant role in a feature film, I want to write a dozen screenplays, at least 3 books, and engender greater opportunity for my kids. My oldest daughter is already a phenomenal artist. My second daughter was cast with me in a stage play, and my son is one of the most intellectual, detail oriented boys--he is just afraid of confrontation. SO, I am a dreamer. I am an artist. I have trouble with structured living. I am not traditional. I channel focus and may be completely oblivious to anything peripheral. I teach my kids about focus and listening. I am not flawless. But I am happy with whom I have become, self-confident, and genuine. I also am sincere in my efforts to advise--I get asked about things more than Dr.Phil. well d'as all folks JiMmY KoMeT

is the grass greener on the fence's other side or do things get meaner being happy has been tried so what keeps it up if not a matter of pride I feel the pain of years i am all man and hold back the tears buy not the toughest around can i cut myslef and i bleed i may not even know but when pain is from need the blood doesnt show the hurt is undefined i cant put my finger on it is always there to remind as often as the sun i had a bad day there was anger and shouts sometimes things work that way when you are full of doubts hold on tightly or let it go things can get unsightly more than u know life is a sequence of events problems and pain no suicide attempts im not insane but when the hurt starts and i feel the loss my heart is torn in parts and feels like it has been run across what can i do where should i go is love really true i whish i could know