Vicki's blog: "Random Thoughts on Fubar"

     Ok so its been a while since I have put myself "on the market," so to speak.  Still, I am not really interested in looking for a relationship. The way I see it, it will just happen when it's right. I don't think seeking your hearts desire finds much of anything except what it is you want to see based on hope, and the things others know you want to see in them.

     I look through all these profiles here at Fubar, and other sites I use; and I see so many guys to drool over. Nice to look at yes, but try to talk to them and see how very uncomparable appearance, intellect, and personality are to rate IN ONE CATEGORY. 

     I personally look at a personality to determine whether a person is approachable as a friend (since that is all I'm looking for). Most of the people on my friends list here are strictly for the game, and I have never spoken a word to them. I have probably sent like five friends requests, and the rest are recieved and accepted, yet why if you never speak?

     I have decided that even here on fubar, it's a little overwhelming to keep all these "friends." I lose the better ones among the ones I will never talk to beyond a hello.

     So what justifies keeping someone on a friends list for me? I think first and foremost it would be to ask, "does this person know me or want to know me?" NOT just looking through and rating pictures, and NOT someone who wants more of me than I'm willing to offer.

     My friends list is going to be cleaned today. If you are on it after tonight, that means I see something personal about you, and you are friend material. If you are on my family...you're the shit and I'd like to keep ya!

     Just another ramble...Thanks for reading...carry on lol