So I was in a moral conundrum this morning.
My soon to be ex (May 14th) wanted me to do some finagling on our car insurance policy so that she would have a cheaper insurance on her new car. Unbeknownst to me, this would mean my insurance would be higher (because according to State Farm now, I'm a single reckless 26 year old male which means I pay out the nose).
If I gifted her the Saturn's policy, she would have paid very little; if I did that, I'd pay nearly double what I am paying now. If I kept the Saturn policy, my rate would be next to nothing, and hers would be about 100 bucks a month (pretty much what she's paying now).
After meeting with the insurance lady, I told her that I would keep the Saturn policy and sure enough, Lacey became extremely butthurt and pissed off in front of the insurance lady and all the other people in the office. She left and then I left shortly after.
I sat in my car for about 10 minutes. I didn't want to do it; but morally I had to.
I walked back in and talked to the insurance lady and said I'd take the Nissan policy, to gift the Saturn policy to Lacey. I left feeling better about myself and just sent a short text to Lacey.
"You owe me. I took the higher policy. Yours is the cheaper one."
The reply I got was.. Well not what I was expecting at all and am now, in fact, furious.
Her: "You took the cheaper."
Me: "No. Went back and talked to her, I took the higher."
Her: "No, goddammit go back and fix it."
Me: "It's done."
Her: "Why are you doing this to me?"
Me: "Helping you?"
Her: "No, you are stressing me out, go back and fix it."
Me: "No. You have the cheaper rate. You're supposed to say "Thanks" at the very least. But it looks like that is too much to ask from you. Whatever."
Her: "It isn't helping if you say I owe you. Go back and change it."
Me: "Fine. You don't owe me crap. Never have never will. I'm done with you."
Come to find out she called State Farm and changed it back for me to have the cheaper rate now... Grr.. What on earth do I do? I am so infuriated over what should be a good thing for me.
