SAPHY's blog: "Come join please!"

So often people think they are inlove. But is it really love ? Or a do you love how you are being treated ? Is it a high of the new? Seriously you all need to figure out what it is before you decide you are in love.  Let me tell you about real love. Its where you actually care about someone enough to make them feel like they matter in every aspect . Not when it is when you think you feel like it . You would want to communicate even tho they may be having a bad day , you would try to cheer them up when they are sad.  If it were only lust thats when you dont care about none of those things you only go after what you want not worring about if the person of interest is sad or mad. To often I have had people tell me they like me and knowing it isnt real. Or to have them walk away when I needed them the most. I will admit it hurts because I have a huge heart . The net is filled with liears and cowards . And I am not blind to them . Though people think I am . Just because I don't always point it out don't mean I don't know the difference of what is real and what isn't . I never thought I deserve to be treated better than I have I never used to think so but a really good friend has been beating it in to my head . So before I take on another romance a guy will go through a trial of things with me.  Think of it as like an interview . And I wont hold back I will tell you what I think and how I feel , my suggestion is to be a man about it if i reject you . I am just tired of being hurt . And I am sorry if it isnt there for me I wont accept that romance neither, no point dragging out something that will lead to heartache or hatred.  And you need to learn the difference between lust and love for me. Do you want good things for me ? Are you proud of me ? Or do you just want things for your personal sexual pleasures ? And is it because you like how I treat you ? This my good friends is the differnce between love and lust .