I hear this a lot. I'd like some input on it if possible. People say that people are in love with the idea of being in love, as opposed to really being in love. I just want to know what's the difference? For me, I'll admit, I do want to be loved. I want to give all of my love to the woman I love. Is that an idea? I don't know.
If I say, how I feel about someone is more than just a physical attraction, that I love everything about them, from how they carry themselves on the outside, to being able to tolerate every little thing they are on the inside, and wanting to be with them and share your life with them no matter what, through thick and thin, how is that just an idea? If every fiber of my being tingles with excitement for one person, how is that an idea?
If what I feel is an idea, why is that a bad thing? Does it mean I won't be the loving person I promise to be? I don't think I'd be the type of person, if I were in a relationship with someone I'd do it half-assed. I'd want to go all out. Do what I can. That is how I feel. Sure, I have my doubts. True, it can be said I don't know what I'm in for, but how am I supposed to know unless I try it? How will I ever know what's an idea, and what's reality? How do I know that my ideas AREN'T reality? These are some of the confusions that has been on my mind lately, and I'm still thinking. Thanks for listening.
Much love.
