Well, as you all know, or should know, or should be finding out, I am going through a separation from my Spousal Unit of 8 years. It started out forced, and has not turned voluntary/involuntary.
Today during PT something hit me. When this separation and the impending divorce are completed, what do I become? I'll always be a daddy to my boys, I'll become the hateful asshole ex-husband, but will I become single? Can I go to singles bars? Do I become a divorcer? Do they have divorced bars?
Just some thoughts I had earlier. Any input? I know what the Army will say, I am divorced, but they don't recognize separation, so I know they are behind the times.
