Zero Edge's blog: "Penny for your Thoughts?"

This is who I am. I have my own beliefs. It's what I've learned growing up in a world where love is thrown away every single day. I am morally challenged and I find it a good thing actually. If I keep getting knocked down I realize that if we fall we must learn to rise.
I have a theory in which I say there are three c's. You have to be calm, cool and collected.

• If you are calm then know that you are aware of what you are doing no matter how tough the situation is.
• The cool is you never turn to violence even if the person had hurt you. Know that they are human as well. It sounds pacifistic and chickenish but the good guys that had not retaliated were the ones who made the biggest difference out there.
• Collected are the thoughts that you keep and even no matter how awkward or clumsy the situation gets there's always something to follow up in your head. Life is that unplanned and unpaid adventure you book one and you might not end up where you want to but if you have something that came along with it then at least you were prepared in some way.

In a relationship, I think this is what I believe are the most important things in love.

1. A girl's smile is always important. That's 50% of being in a relationship if you can keep a smile like that then you know it's there.
2. The other 50 is the ways you could make it out that smile like you're true to her, original and you know her well enough that reciprocity is equal.
3. Finally remember that love is the unconditional feeling that you could never break or hurt for it's not supposed to make you feel that instead it's like truth. It's supposed to make you feel alive and free. Anything else isn't love it's what we have to understand.
4. Always remember the heart's the hardest muscle but it's also the weakest since because by the end of the day you would love to hold onto it because you would say that you needed someone to hold you.
5. Also, remember that even in your heart always remember the spot that's there for you when you fall back down so that when you break down you won't feel as broken as ever because you know there's solace and peace in there.
6. As my uncle would say, "If she sees me as a boy and you give yourself time to let her recognize you would be her man someday then look at you and say you're her man then she will be your mrs. right."

These all sounds farfetched but put it in your perspective and look closely in the mirror.