I feel sometimes that a lot of women take themselves too seriously and are often hung up about the wrong things. If a man or ur man has no problem with ur body then why should u? Another thing is that u should give guys more credit. Sure there are a lot of assholes out there and there are a lot of bitches. If a guy has been in a relationship with u for a long time then whenever u have sex there is an emotional bond that gets renewed. If goes far deeper than just wanting to bust a nut. Sure men have the ability to have random sex without attachments, but in a relationship things r different. Your willingness to please your man without excuses and surprise him will boost his self esteem and mood and most times than not he will be more receptive to your emotional needs. Remember men are hardwired more physically than emotionally. There has to be compromise; don't expect a man to continuously be there emotionally for u if u withdraw his physical-emotional blend of comfort. Alot of times women just let things get to them and don't realize that it is actually a compliment in disguise. If ur man wants u constantly them that means u probably got tha bomb diggity. Keep him satisfied and he will keep u satisfied and he won't go anywhere.
Most women who expect not to do much for their man but he should be there for them are the ones who start looking elsewhere for the FRESH, NEW, DIFFERENT attention because u claim that ur man doesn't care and all he wants is sex.. Men are more physical creatures. Even if u getthe initial attention from some other guy it is because he is still trying to impress u and get well what else sex. And most times after these romeos sweet talk u they cut their slice of the cake and vanish. It is much better to stick with the one u know and work out ways to regain that freshness. Take this from one who has been there and tried but this is a two person deal and if both are not willing then u will be where i am today... Slightly bitter and now will become obsessed with the idea of just getting money so life can be enjoyed for it is very short indeed.
"A feast was made for entertaining and wine maketh merry, but money answereth all things" -The Bible
