I gripe but --
I really do like this place, it's structured "overall"/'in the large" so that antisocial (relatively- not as much as I once was...) people like me will take a chance on talking with people even more than elsewhere on the net, I think...
there is a mutuality, in points of course (scratch-your-back-scratch-mine or however :) ) that encourages people of that social frame of mind to stay and that extends beyond just "point things"...
this just two points of a positive list, and despite all those nits that I have picked at lately and not so lately, those issues that I do gripe about great and small. I really would leave, I like to think, if it were only the wonderful people I have met here- and I have and soon after I joined- that were rooting my electronic "feet" to "spot": if it were only that, I would arrange for them to know where they could find me again, and I would split faster than peeled fruit. But I did not and (foreseeable future ;^) ) shall not... the balance is much too positive.