Here's what I don't get. You're talking to someone, everything's fine and dandy. You're getting along, and things are fun. All of a sudden, *poof*. No more communication. Why? What makes someone just stop talking to you and start ignoring you?
Yeah, I understand, sometimes people just decide they don't want you around anymore. These things happen, and I'm fine with that. But here's the thing. When people ignore you, you confront them, they say "Oh no never", and then go back to ignoring you... Why? Where's the logic in that? I understand if you're not at the comp, or your phone's dead/off/lost/whatever. But when it's perfectly clear and public knowledge that none of that is true, what's the sense in that?
Okay, here's the deal. If you really are just that busy/hectic/chaotic/whatever, okay, cool. But if not, then just be honest. If you're afraid to hurt someone's feelings, get over it and just say whatever you feel needs to be said. I personally would rather have the truth than some sort of misdirection and avoidance. I think most people would. It's much less frustrating, and would make it possible to reallocate some time that is unknowingly being wasted, if that's the case.
So, just throw down some honesty. Or, try to make an attempt to not ignore people you "like". Pretty simple, I think. Don't you?
