Over 16,538,937 people are on fubar.
What are you waiting for?
Some Fu-"Insight" after nearly 5 years here...
* A minimal number of daily "likes" probably means that you're NOT an attention whore. BE PROUD!
* Being below level 35 or so after several years on Fubar probably means you're not an attention whore AND that you emotionally
graduated from high school. Be proud! Oh, and ALSO that you are not an idiot willing to spend hundreds if not THOUSANDS of
dollars on tiny animated gifs or are expecting that others do so in order to boost your ego or level.
* The longer you are registered here and able to resist entering into a "relationship" with another member here, the more
emotionally stable and less desperate and needy you likely are. AGAIN!, Be proud that you don't need someone else in your life to
feel whole, fulfilled and happy. Interpersonal relationships should be icing on the cake...not filling a hole.
*Romantic relationships that are entered into here are FAR FAR more likely doomed from the outset than are they likely to amount to
anything. I have observed this WAY too many times to not know of what I speak. You stand a far better chance of successfully
hooking up with someone if you utilize a site that is expressly designed for dating purposes. Fubar draws MANY people that are
desperately lonely and/or in unhappy marriages and relationships. They aren't emotionally or logicstically in a place where they can
really put themselves "out there" to seek and enter into a relationship, so they feebly attempt to get their needs met here to
whatever minimal extend they can.
* Just as in the real world, there are some REALLY FUCKED UP people here. But on Fubar it seems sort of exponential.
* This is a great place to hang out if, like me, you are a sociologist at heart and find human interaction, particularly profoundly
dysfunctional human interaction, fascinating. A graduate student in psychology couldn't ask for a more fertile ground for
gleaning a thesis project.
* If you look back on your involvement here on Fubar after several years and you are completely honest with yourself, it will be highly
likely that you will view it as either a waste of time or, at best, a means of killing time.
* People that are truly emotionally healthy and have busy, fullfilling and rewarding lives are not spending time on Fubar. A vast
majority probably haven't even HEARD of Fubar. How about ME you ask? I'm a "time BIDER". I am an individual with a
low threshold when it comes to getting my face-to-face socialization needs met. In fact, because of the nature of my work,
they are met almost entirely between the hours of 7am and 3pm Monday through Friday. Fubar is nothing more than a form of
entertainment for me. In a couple of years I will retire and live where and with whom I desire and am planning to and Fubar
and anything and everything it entails will have no more relevance than the Deadly Neighbor episodes of Investigation Discovery I
watched on Netflix yesterday.
