OK. So I finally have realized that I was never more than 'potential' option...never meant to be anything more than someeone you flirted w/ when others were not around or available to you. & you are a flirt & a user & a player in everysense of the word. i guess when you told me that you regarded all men as abusers due to the fact that you had been abused. & i guess you feel that since you were mistreated it gives you the right to mistreat others. So you want to continue the cycle of...good girl get screwed over by bad guy, so you become a bitch & screw over a good guy, to the point where he becomes a bad boy & screws over a good girl...& so on & so on. Well, I am staing now I will never become a bad guy & do that ...because I'm NEVER gonna bother getting involved in that way w/ anyone ever again. I AM DONE!!!