For me there's no such thing as falling out of love...
We won't chose a car and pay damn much if we are not sure about it.
We fell in love and give it the best care and pimping we value it.
FALLING OUT OF LOVE is not being in love at all that you have just been an impulsive buyer you didnt get to know the cars value you were amused by what you see outside without checking it. You were just attracted and you didn't have that connection.
Meaning YOU DIDNT FALL IN LOVE AT ALL and you're not FALLING OUT but coming out from a realization.
LOVE is a continuous process, exploration, discovery and acceptance. And there are 3 elements.... Attraction, Attachment and Attitude.
Theres always attraction and attachment in the relationship. We are playful, and challenging with each other, and we are also romantic and comforting with each other. Our conscious needs are met and so as our unconscious needs, so you are deeply in love.
Attachment to love is like the car parts to a car, it makes the car functional
Attraction to love is like oil to a car coz it sustains the car parts to work properly
Attitude to love is our maturity and the self confidence.... Where each partner should have in order to make a relationship work. So attitude is the body of the car that keeps all the elements together and makes the car complete and authentic.
When the two elements of love Attraction and Attachment are in the relationship, it works like magic and wonders and you partner is madly in love with you, everything is awesomesauce but then, in a few weeks, months or years due to familiarity, routine, daily issues, personal problems etc and blahs. Attraction starts to fade out to one coz he/she got to used too.
For a partner things might change, for him/her the usual became unusual the intrigue goes away, there is no more teasing going on ( get your mind off the gutter not just the sexual ways sImple teasing) and things get boring and predictable. So what’s left is just Attachment.
And sadly a relationship where there is only Attachment gets dry and boring, just like a car with no oil – THE PARTS GET BROKEN
Lube up your cars or just sell it let go than to wreck it coz you can't sustain keeping it .....
COMMUNICATION is the KEY ;)
I'm no love guru I stand corrected opinion of a Monster