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Val's blog: "Stuff"

created on 09/28/2006  |  http://fubar.com/stuff/b7818
I know, I KNOW! I havent been here much again and I am sorry. It has been totally insane. Some of you may remember me mentioning about my husbands son from his first marriage finding us. (If not its in a blog you can go read about it) Well, turns out there wont be much of a happy reunion right now or in the immediate future. That is unless its going to happen in jail. Thats where my step son is right now and will be until next summer. I have been going crazy trying to figure out all the ins and outs of jail life so I can figure out how to help him. All the rules about receiving mail, and having visitors and making phone calls is just nuts but I am figuring it all out. Some good has come out of this so far. We did get to meet my DIL and the grandkids. She brought them out to meet us last weekend. My hubby got to talk to his son for the first time in 17 years! Its all working out. Step son weants his wife to get settled in a place out here before he gets released so I have been helping her look for places and job prospects. What else is happening? Well my business has been put on the side burner for now. The kids and I have all been sick. Been trying to get some Christmas shopping out of the way before its too late.Like I said it has just been insane. BUT I think its starting to calm down some so hopefully i will be back on here soon full time. I do stop in from time to time so if you need me just leave me a message or something and I will get back to you.

Where have I been?

Ok I am sure a couple of you are wondering where the heck have I been for so long. It has been really insane around here lately and there has been a couple of things going on. 1)A little background first. My hubby had 3 kids from his first marriage but lost contact almost 20 years ago when his ex wife moved the kids and wouldnt tell him where they were. He went to pick them up for his weekly visistation and they were gone and the house wwas empty. he tried looking for them but no one would tell him anything and the child support could NOT tell him because of the child protection laws. Well a few weeks ago I got a letter in the mail from a woman who was looking for her husband's father. It was confirmedshortly after that that this was in fact my hubby's oldest son from his first marriage. They had been looking for him for years. We are currently planning a BIG reunion between father and son and now grandkids too!!! 2)I have been trying to start my own business. I do professional resume writing and have been trying to get a website together and some marketing strategies going. As well as trying to actually get some resumes written. 3)We he also been tossing the idea around of buying a horse. So I have been having to do alot of research on boarding, furriers, vets, feed,etc.... BUT I decided this morning that right now is not the right time to take on such an endeavor with everything else that is going on so maybe in the spring of next year I will revisit the idea of buying a horse. 4)The holidays are upon us!!! Got Thanksgiving dinner to plan and got get the house cleaned up for company. We got Christmas stuff to do(putting the tree up, decorating, gift buying and wrapping. GRRRRRR!!! Tell me when the new year gets here so I can rest LOL So thats what's been going on.
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And another thing!

I am sick and tired of friggin men coming to my page and acting all cute and innocent untill after I befreind them. Men please if you are going to be jerks then just do so from the very begining and stop wasting my time! I have way too much to do to sit around blocking your sorry asses because you dont know how to behave yourselves. Better yet if you arent cabable of respecting me as a human being then just stay the fuck away from me. I am not your toy and I am not here for your entertainment. If all you want is to see pics of me and try to talk dirty to me then stay the hell off my page. I have more important people to talk to than scum like you. There are actually REAL men on this site that know how to treat a lady, I suggest you find some of them and take some fucking notes because at the rate you are going the only way you are going to get laid by any woman is if she is dead or unconscious! Get control of yourself or get the fuck away from me! Simple!! OK Now I feel a whole lot better. Thanks for listening.

This drives me nuts!!

Yes this is a rant so be prepared. Why in the name of the flying Spaghetti monster do people have their profiles set up to where people cant leave them comments. I can understand not wanting HTML and thats all fine and good but dammit why make it to where you cant get comments from people that arent friends with you? How the hell are you supposed to make new friends if nobody can fucking communicate with you? I dont know how many times i have tried to leave a comment on a page or picture (quite often to compliment the person) and I get the screen that tells me what a fasciast bitch the person is because they dont want me to leave a comment. Well DUH I have already come to the coclusion that they must be a fasciast bitch or else I would be able to leave them a damn comment. If you dont want people to leave you comments then why the hell are you on a site like this to begin with? Sorry about the rant but I do feel much better now that I have gotten that off my chest. Thanks

I must be losing my mind!!

Ok I am trippin! I swear i keep hearing that noise on here when someone shouts at you but when I look at my shoutbox there is nothing. If I am losing my mind and hearing things someone please refer me to a good doctor. If someone is shouting at me and my thing is broke or whatever I am really sorry. I can hear ya but I cant see what it says. Is it just me? Is anyone else having issues with the sound effects here?
OK I am still having some technical issues. Nothing as bad as before but still cant stay connected for long. I am working on it and obviously I havent thrown the stupid thing out the window YET. I hope to get it all figured out within the next 24 hours or so. I am really close to beating this stupid machine so please friends bear with me.
....I am having some fairly serious problems with my computer. I am going to try to get them all fixed today but there are no promises. I may not be very active here in the mean time but I promise I will try to not fall too far behind on what is going on with everyone. Bear with me while I take care of this problem. If I am not back here in a day or so it will be safe to assume that I threw my computer out of the window. LOL

The Vampire

The Vampire Lord Lytton, 1858 I found a corpse, with glittering hair, Of a woman whose face, tho' dead, The white death in it had left still fair, Too fair for an earthly bed! So I loosened each fold of her bright curls roll'd From forehead to foot in a rush of red gold, And kissed her lips till her lips were red, And warm and light on her eyelids white I breath'd, and pressed unto mine her breast, Till the blue eyes oped and the breast grew warm, And this woman, behold! arose up bold, And lifelike lifting a wilful arm, With steady feet from the winding sheet Stepp'd forth to a mutter'd charm. And now beside me, whatever betide me, This woman is, night and day. For she cleaves to me so, that, wherever I go She is with me the whole of the way. And her eyes are so bright in the dead of the night, That they keep me awake with dread; While my life blood pales in my veins and fails, Because her red lips are so red That I fear 'tis my heart she must eat for her food; And it makes my whole flesh creep To think she is drinking and draining my blood, Unawares, if I chance to sleep. It were better for me, ere I came nigh her, - This corpse, - ere I looked upon her, - Had they burn'd my body with penal fire With a sorcerer's dishonour. For when the devil has made his lair In the living eyes of a dear dead woman, (To bind a man's strength by her golden hair, And break his heart, if his heart be human), Is there any penance, or any prayer, That may save the sinner whose soul he tries To catch in the curse of the constant stare Of those heartbreaking bewildering eyes, - Comfortless, cavernous glowworms that glare From the gaping grave where a dead hope lies? It is more than the soul of a man may bear. For the misery worst of all miseries Is Desire eternally feeding Despair On the flesh, or the blood, that forever supplies Life more than enough to keep fresh in repair The death ever dying, which yet never dies.
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