The doors of opportunity won't open unless you push on it. The hardest part of any success occurring in someone's life is taking that first step. The only one you can hold responsible for your position in life is yourself. Whether it is in a relationship or business. No one forced you there. We all have free will.
The worse thing I hear so much from people is my relationship failed because THEY did this to me. My business failed because THIS person did this to me. Sometimes this can be true but people this is called life. Every day we encounter obstacles in our path. No exceptions. In business, at home, or in a relationship. It's all about how we deal with these obstacles. You're not alone. My God, if I even tried to count the times I was knocked down in my life through a bad relationship or a difficult obstacle to overcome in my career I could go on for years writing. But this I can guarantee. Every time I got knocked down I got right back up and was stronger than before. Every time you get kicked or pushed down, learn from it and move on. Keep walking forward and don't look back!
Many feel they're stuck in the position they're in; but understand your not. If there is a way there is a will. As someone who was in a bad relationship once told me. "I leave before I'm left." When I see something I need doing, I do it! I don't wait for someone to do it for me. This is truly what separates success from failure. When I was working I led by example. In time I was seen as a leader and not a follower. I was never afraid to get my hands dirty working to make one of my medical clinics a better place. That could mean working side by side with a receptionist if that is what it took. They learned from me and I learned from them. We never stop learning and don't think you know it all. You never will.
Back to my subject; We all want to be happy, successful and to able to enjoy life in a relaxed state. This is our goal our dream and our passions. So what is stopping you? First you have to like the person you are. You have to feel good about yourself. Only than can you begin to move forward and than only you can stop you. I know plenty of mothers raising children and attending on line College courses. Live your dream. It's never too late! And remember, Some pursue happiness others create it!
Everyone have a wonderful week and thank you for taking the time to read my thoughts. Copyright: Rich R 11/12/07
