this is so true
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship
that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before
you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating
you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He
didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any
differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you,
speak up. Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he
has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two
way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone smile, another
rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it takes a minute
to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them
and an entire life time to forget them.
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kick ass advice
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What every girl needs to know about guys.
Best Advice You Will Probably Ever Hear:
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If he's not calling you, it's because you're not on his mind.
If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn't follow through on little things, he will do the same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he's okay with disappointing you.
Don't be with someone who doesn't do what they say they're going to do.
"Busy" is another word for "asshole." "Asshole" is another word for the guy you're dating.
If at all possible, try to get to know someone as best you can before you get naked with them.
If a man is really into you, nothing will stop him from being with you.
Whatever problems you may have been having in your relationship, they didn't merit him having sex with someone else.
An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship."
If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.
Cheating is bad. Not knowing why you cheated is even worse. Don't date any man who doesn't know why he does things.
100% of men polled they have never accidentally slept with anyone.
100% of men polled said they've never been too busy to call a woman they were really into.
Cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter whom it was with or how many times it happened.
Cheating gets easier every time it's done. It's only hard the first time, when one feels the sting of morality and the guilt of betraying someone's trust.
It doesn't count unless he says it when he's sober. An "I Love You" (or any semblance thereof) while under the influence of anything stronger than grape juice won't hold up in court or in life.
If he only wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you, etc., when he's inebriated, it ain't love - it's sport.
Don't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.
If you feel that's he's always holding something back, or that you're spending a lot of energy trying to change yourself into something you think will make him happier, then divorce yourself from him and move on.
100% of guys polled said they would have no problem marrying a woman who they were positive was the love of their life.
It's very tempting when you really want to be with someone to settle for much, much less - even a vague, pathetic facsimile of less - than you would have ever imagined. Remember always what you set out to get, and please don't settle for less.
Deciding to get back together with someone is a complicated and difficult decision. Just remember that the person that you are getting back together with is the same person who, not long before, looked you in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and all your qualities, and told you that he was no longer in need of your company.
You can't talk your way out of a breakup. It is not up for discussion. A breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic one.
Break up sex still means you're broken up.
cut him off, let him miss you.
Don't give him the chance to reject you again.
If the person you "love" cannot freely spend his days thinking about you and being with you, it's not REAL love.
Unless he's all yours, he's still hers.
Try not to be 4 years into the relationship when it suddenly dawns on you that the guy you're with is a big, selfish jerk.
You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time. (You have to be nice to them, too.)
You already have one asshole. You don't need another.
