In the beginning…….
The “falling†is the high in any relationship. The newness, the getting to know each other, the text message in the middle of the day which brings the smile to your face. Exploring each other, emotionally, sexually. So what happens….that newness fades and, though the love remains, that excitement and anticipation of seeing each other isn’t what it used to be!?
It is sad….and the reason about 90% of you ladies are on here, trying to recapture that attention, that excitement of desire, the excitement and feeling that fills you with the new crush….tell me if I'm wrong, or do you even realize it!?
So….any idea on how to keep that Newness alive, with the one your with, the one you love??? Not sure how it works for most, but here’s some stuff I like to do…..
1. Take a trip, out of town, or just locally….rent a hotel room (nice ones here in Vegas), and set up a “dateâ€. She would dress up, as would I….meet for dinner, some drinks in the hotel restaurant….then up to the room for a nightcap.
2. Text her (or him if it applies) and let them know your thinking about them.
3. Explore each others fantasies. If just in words or play acting…but do it. I have happened to have opened up this past year (with the help of a friend) and have actually become open to fulfilling my lady’s fantasies without the ugly jealousy. In this area you have to be careful. Most try with friends the first time…..not a good idea, should be complete strangers if others are involved.
4. GET OUT…..go out, do something, even if just a meal….a nice drive, something. The same ‘ol shit all the time becomes boring….find the time. I happen to live in Las Vegas, and there is a lot to do. Even just a stroll or cruise down the strip can be fun.
5. Find out what your partner’s interest are NOW, as sometimes they change.
6. Fall in love all over again….try courting each other again! That’s right, call or text and ask for a date. Bring flower, or get a hotel (if you have different place that’s even better. Have it set up like the first night you knew you were gonna do it….the candles, the roses….go all out….but build up to it first. Maybe a little playing on the dance floor.
7. MOST IMPORTANT…..never lose site of (even if you have to post it in your PDA or a friggin post-it-note on your computer screen….that your partner is a beautiful woman (or nice looking man) and wants to be reminded of that. Don’t take each other for granted. Text each other throughout the day ….â€Hi baby, I was just thinking about you, and your sweet little pussy (or dick, however it may be….just don’t say little if it’s the dick thing)….and how much I wanna taste it†…is a good example. Get the blood flowing…..build up to the time when you do see each other, and want to rip each others clothes off. One of the biggest turn on's, for men as well as woman, is knowing you are desired. Why do you think you post all those pic’s that drive us guys crazy!!!
