After getting 2 days hopelessly behind, I
finally got desperate and had to cut to the
chase just review some -- in following priority
order from top to bottom. All else ignore:
0. profile comment
--- helpful assistance for my errors
1. messages
--- from users & about secret admirers.
2. friend requests
--- I need some "about me" & "interests"
in their profile, or informally done
via private messaging me.
3. blog comments
4. profile rated 11
5. became my fan
6. my photo added to favorites
--- yikes, I thought this was "hidden" !