We all had recently lost 2 very dear loving people, and we have to Honor the Traditions.
I too will miss my Sister and Brother very dearly and we are bonded by the Spirit that made us Sisters.
The fact that they were both very traditional we have to honor that
I for one do understand, cause I believe in the traditions, but from now on WE CAN NOT SAY THEIR NAMES it will keep them here and they both need to go on.
I do know she wouldn't of wanted us to grief for her long cause she loved life and would want us to go on. That is why I will not say their names and try to think of things to take my mind off, I am grieving too but it is time to move on.
They both would've wanted that, trust me
