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 While most people will decide to hide their heads in the sand or look the other way. Domestic violence will not go away just because we chose to ignor it. The only thing that you manage to do by ignoring it is making it worst for the victim of the crime. The abuser goes out of their way to make their victim feel helpless. They try to take away their friends by spreading lies about them leaving the victim feeling even more helpless in the process. The abusers belittle their victims trying to make them feel like they are worthless. In doing so they get control over the victim’s. This is how they make the victim depended on them. I went through this with 2 girls that had abusive roomate and bfs. tell you right now It’s not essy to do too, you will feel powerless and helpless trying to help them. But you must suffered through It with them if you want to saved them. You will feel like giving because you will lose faith in yourself over not being able to do more. Hanged in there talk to them try to empowered them.It only takes one person to sparked hope in someone that’s losing it because of the abuse. Blow i will tell you whatyou need go do so they can get help. It’s vital that you make sure that they are willing to accept the help first although as most of the abused will be fraid to speak out agaisnt the abuser because of fear that nothing will get done to saved them.So you must convinced them otherwise. Below the steps needed to help them.

1. Try to id the problem there will be tale tales signs of the abuse that’s going on. Talk to them to get them to open up to you. You can only help them if they have trust in you first. Don’t just come right out and tell them you know they being abused. It will make them shy away from you. First girl I help was weary of me. Took me a month to gain her trust so that i could help her. Second 1 is a girl that i love very much. Out of the 2 the second one was the hardest to fight through spent many sleepless nights with my ear by my phone in case she needed me. Even sing the song one call away on smule for her to let her know i was one call away. I knew i had to keep her spirit up if i was going to saved her from her abuser. That was my goal to empowered her while abuser try to belittle her. While her friends were dropping her i stuck by her side, wasn’t about to leave her side. Even though she was many states away from I still manage to get her out of that abuser grasp. On to step
2. 2. Try to get them help in a safe way. Figured out a safe zone for them Like public spot where there are other people around. The more the better too. Don’t just call and have them come to their house unless there are signs of abuse. In my girl case she had the stranglation marks on her neck from where her abuser try strangled her. happen on Dec the 5 in the morning of 2016. I knew right there something had to be done or she might have ended up dead. Leaving behind 2 kids and someone that love her very much. So when she gave me the go ahead to call the cops i was on it. My voice was shaky so i had someone else make the call. Her abuser was behind bars and she was safe once more. I have her permission to post the pictures of her neck in this article. I won’t tell her name although. She pictures below of what abuse she suffered through. I atll have nightmares from time to time over it.

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                     https://medium.com/@clarenceturpin/domestic-violence-more-of-a-problem-the-you-might-think-bcbb8302630d