So here is the deal. Lately, I have been putting a lot of MuMM's about my relationship, or relationships in general.
I just wanted to make sure that everyone was clear on my relationship.
I am very happy and content in my relationship.
I am in a very serious relationship with a guy named Josh S.
He has been a very supportive factor in my life over the past almost two years. He was one of the few people that understood when my aunt was sick and dying that I needed my space, but was always there when I needed him. He gave my space, but within the space there was the understanding that he was just a phone call or txt away.
We have been friends for a long time, via the internet, and have only been a couple for 7 months. I know to a lot of people, that doesn't seem like a long time, but it really is.
There are no ifs ands or butts about our relationship, we are what we are. We don't apologize for the way we act when we are together, we don't apologize for the way we act when we are apart.
We have an understanding that we are exclusive, if we are going to go out with a member of the opposite sex, we tell each other. Nothing is a secret, and that's the way it was from the start, no secrets. I know who he is out with at night and what he is doing, and he knows the same about me.
We talk about everything, no topic is to taboo. We have discussed every aspect of our relationship many times, over and over again.
Before we decided to date, we both thought about it. Before we decided to have sex we discussed it. Nothing has been entered into upon lightly. Our friends feelings have been incorporated, along with our families. We have never dismissed anyones opinion about any aspect. We take into considerate what they say, and discuss how we can better things.
Yes, our relationship has had its issues. Long distance relationships are not easy, espically when one of the people in the relationship is in college and doesn't have a lot of money, and the other person is always working. We have fights about not being able to see each other, we have also had fights where we thought one or the other was cheating. No relationship is perfect, but each step of the way we have been able to work things out.
I know that most people have stopped reading this by now, or if they are still reading it, they are saying to themselves that it has only been 7 months, its still early. It isn't really that early for either of us. This is a long time together, and everytime we spend together just seems to be shorter and shorter.
Now the reason for actually posting this blog. There is no trouble in my relationship, it is going perfectly. Things are great. We see each other as often as possible, we talk all the time *we'll we txt but its the same difference*. When we are together, everything is perfect. I have never met a man that is willing to just lay there and cuddle with someone after not seeing them for a month or so. No, it's not that he doesn't want to sleep with me or anything, but he does understand that maybe sometimes it is better to avoid the physical aspect of the relationship.
Currently we are discussing taking our relationship to the next level. I have no idea what the next level entitles completely, but I know this much, he is about ready to tell me he loves me for the first time. Yes, this is the big deal. He has only ever told one other girl he loved her, so it is a very big deal. He wants to make our relationship very serious, so yea. I just wanted everyone to have a clear understanding on the trials and tribulations of Beth and Josh :)
