Over 16,533,320 people are on fubar.
What are you waiting for?
SOMETHINGS YOU NEED TO HEAR AND SERIOUSLY WRAP YOUR HEAD AROUND.
1.) I LOVE YOU FOR YOU. THE IMPERFECT YOU. THE YOU THAT WILL MAKE MISTAKES.
2.) I LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO NOT KISS YOUR ASS WHEN YOU HAVE OR ARE GOING TO DO SOMETHING I KNOW YOU ARE SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW BETTER TO DO.
3.) I LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH. EVEN IF IT WILL MAKE YOU ANGRY. EVEN IF I KNOW IT ISNT IN YOUR FAVOR.
4.) I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH YOU BEING MAD AT ME FOR TELLING YOU THE TRUTH.
5.) SHUTTING ME OUT ON THINGS YOU ARE AFRAID I WONT TAKE YOUR SIDE ON DEGRADES AND INSULTS ME AS A FRIEND. YOU DONT WANT A FRIEND. YOU WANT A "YES MAN".
6.) PICKING AND CHOOSING WHEN I AM YOUR "FRIEND", DOESNT MAKE ME YOUR FRIEND. I AM YOUR FFRIEND 24/7. GOOD AND BAD. WHEN YOU DO SOMETHING STUPID. WHEN YOU DO SOMETHING SMART. WHEN I AGREE WITH YOU. WHEN I DONT AGREE WITH YOU. TREAT ME THE SAME OR GO YOUR SEPERATE WAY RIGHT NOW.
7.) FAIR WEATHER FRIENDS ARE ONLY THERE WHEN TIMES ARE GOOD. IF THE ONLY TIME YOU ALLOW ME TO BE A PART OF YOUR LIFE IS WHEN TIMES ARE GOOD, YOU FORCE ME TO BE A FAIR WEATHER FRIEND. I REFUSE TO BE A FAIR WEATHER FFRIEND. BY CHOICE OR BY FORCE.
EITHER RESPECT THIS AND ME FOR THIS, OR WE ARE DONE. NO EXCEPTIONS. YES THAT MEANS YOU.
You've got a thin line between Heaven and Hell
You make it easy to cross 'cause you hide it so well
You're so sketchy with the games you play
You drag men by the heart in your own special way
To you breaking the rules seems fair
As long as you get what you want, you just don't care
You smile so sweet as you watch them falling
Breaking hearts is your true calling
This is your game, so lets play by your rules
But I'm telling you now darlin', I am nobody’s fool
I know your motives and I know them well
You've got a thin line between Heaven and Hell
If you have my number & the only time I hear from you is when you are inbteween men, bored, having a crisis, sending me a fwd, or I have to start the convo, delete my number. Do not reply to save face. Said face will be verbally ripped off and handed to you without a 2nd thought
I have always believed there is a difference between judging someones actions as opposed to actually judging the person.
If you ask my opinion on something you have done, you are by default asking me to make a judgement. Either I will agree with you or I won't. Just because I may not agree with you, don't hide behind the "Don't Judge Me" defense.
If you didn't want my opinion (which again is based on my own personal judgement of the topic at hand), then don't ask.
Just because I don't agree with you, that doesn't mean I think you are inherently a bad person. It isn't a reflection of my opinion of your character.
Futhermore, just because someone doesn't "take your side" in a situation, don't accuse them of judging you. If they are a true friend and respect you as such, they will be honest with you, even if it means hurting your feelings or making you mad.
There are those who hide behind "Well I don't want to judge" for no other reason than to avoid having to get involved. That's a cop out. If you don't want to get involved, just say so.
The only way to avoid "judging" people is to never ever speak an opinion. If you aren't afraid to speak your mind, then be prepared to be accused of judging by people who don't know what the word actually means.
Judge-verb: to form a judgment or opinion of; decide upon critically
If you don't want to be judged, don't ask anyone their opinion on anything. it's that simple. If you ask someones opinion, be prepared for them to pass judgement. that is just how it works. Cowboy up or don't ask questions you don't want the answers too.
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Accounts will be terminated for abusing the adult content policy. This includes your Home page, Bulletins, Comments, MUMMs, Stash, Blasts, Spotlight, and Blogs.
fubar will not dispute photos that they have marked NSFW as it is at their own discretion.
*I DON'T GET IT PEOPLE. THIS SEEMS PRETTY CUT AND DRY TO ME. WHY SO MUCH BITCHING ABOUT YOUR PICS GETTING MARKED NSFW WHEN THEY CLEARLY FIT THE CRITERIA?
DID YOU EVEN BOTHER TO READ THE GUIDE LINES? NSFW IS NOT UP TO YOUR INTERPRETATION. IT IS UP TO THE FU GODS. AND THEY HAVE LAID THE CRITERIA THEY USE PRETTY CLEARLY IF YOU ASK ME.
GRANTED THERE WILL ALWAYS BE DOUCHE BAG IDIOTS WHO USE THE "MARK AS NSFW" FEATURE AS A TOOL FOR HARRASMENT. WHEN THAT HAPPENS, TALK TO A BOUNCER. IF IT CLEARLY DOESN'T FIT NSFW GUIDELINES THEY WILL UNMARK IT.
STOP BITCHING BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T BOTHER TO READ THE CRITERIA FOR NSFW AND HAD YOUR PICS REMOVED/MARKED.
TO DUMB IT DOWN EVEN MORE~ IF YOU WOULDN'T WANT YOUR BOSS OR YOUR CO WORKERS CATCHING YOU LOOKING AT IT, IT'S PROBABLY NSFW.*
THE NAUGHTY KNIGHT'S FAIREST MAIDENS FEATURE WAS CREATED WITH THE INTENT OF DRAWING ATTENTION TO WOMEN ON FUBAR WHO WOULDN'T OTHERWISE RECIEVE IT. IT WAS A MEANS TO GENUINELY COMPLIMENT WOMEN WHO DON'T GET THE CREDIT THEY DESERVE FOR BEING DECENT PEOPLE. IT WAS CREATED WITH THE UTMOST RESPECT AND SCINERITY. BUT INTENT AND INTERPRETATION AREN'T ALWAYS THE SAME. IT WAS NEVER MEANT TO BE MY PERSONAL COLLECTION OF WOMEN. THAT IS NOT THE IMAGE I WANT TO HAVE REFLECTED ON MYSELF OR THE WOMEN FEATURED. I HAVE ALWAYS PRIDED MYSELF ON BEING A GENTLEMAN ABOVE ALL ELSE. YES I AM A SHAMELESS FLIRT, BUT I HAVE NEVER HAD A WOMAN FEEL THE NEED TO CORRECT ME FOR OVER STEPPING MY BOUNDRIES. WITH THAT SAID, I WILL NO LONGER BE DOING THE FAIREST MAIDEN FEATURE. IT ISN'T WORTH RUINING MY REPUTATION AS A GENTLEMAN OR THE REPUTATION OF THE GENUINELY DECENT WOMEN IVE CHOSEN TO FEATURE.
MY CELL IS 618-203-9826..I HAVE UNLIMTD TXT/TALK....TXT ME FIRST TO LET ME KNOW WHO YOU ARE IF I DONT ALREADY HAVE YOUR NUMBER, OR I WONT ANSWER. OR YOU CAN YIM ME @ PIMP_RIDE_76@YAHOO.COM
=== 'The Naughty Knight FanRateAdd' wrote the following at '2010-04-09 08:51:46'..
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> I understand that you had to reset fubux due to over payments in the Fu-owed department. But until the reset I had just over 24 million. I was given back 7 million. You can't seriously expect me to believe you took 17 million bux from me because of fu-owned over payment? 17 million? And even if it was due to over payment in from Fu-owned, why should we as members of this site who put money into this site, have to get shorted because of the system screwing up? Granted I know this won't get rectified. And I will more than likely get a scripted answer. Just like the one I got in the support lounge.
THEY WROTE BACK-
we adjusted the fuowned system and this might have effected you. If so the new total is your total fubucks to date
