XxRioIsLovelyXxAFxX's blog: "LOVE/DATING"

I have always preferred nerdy cute men over arrogant attractive men. i adore men who are attractive, funny and intelligent but have NO IDEA how wonderful they really are. i also prefer a man who doesnt look in the mirror all day, and spend all day in the gym staring at himself and measuring his muscles. i'm totally fine with the skinny, goofy type.  I find they are less arrogant, a lot more kind and less prideful when showing the women in their life how happy they are to be together in a relationship.

i have not had the same experiences with men who have "women falling all over themselves" to be with them. the more attractive a man thinks he is, the less he will make his actual girlfriend/wife feel wanted, loved and cared for. this has been my experience. as if Mr. Hot shows any type of love and how "he cant live without her" feelings, this will make him less of man. the man with "many options" never feels he has to do much to keep a woman happy in the relationship, yet feels entitled to to it from the his woman. to be with a man like this, is stressful, and not very fun. 

the only time, Mr. Hot will try to "get" a woman, is when she treats him as if he doesnt exist. again, stressful and just a whole lot of game play. 

i blame Lloyd Dobler, the character in the movie Say Anything for my choice in men.  He was cute, but lacked the arrogance that comes with being attractive. he was so sweet and treated Diane Court like a princess. 

by that, i dont mean he showered her with gifts and fancy dinners. he showed her love, attention, affection and made her feel like she was the only woman in the world for him. i strongly believe thats all women really want. even the most shallow bitch will cheat on her rich man/husband because he spends all  his time with his buddies or at work. 

Lloyd Dobler didnt over-do it, he just did what he felt, regardless of the outcome.  i like that. 

i have always been skeptical of falling in love with someone online. i have always been skeptical of true love, offline...or as some choose to refer as Real Life. i prefer the term "offline" because i have made some very REAL friends online.

anyway, here at fubar, i know that some have met online, met offline, fallen in love and married. so i guess its possible. i know people who have met on fubar, fallen in love, then meet off line and then end up having sex, then hating each other.

i dont know, how is this any different than offline love?

i mean, i think one is able to learn a whole lot more from someone at a online bar then say an offline bar. hell, some meet at a bar in person, end up having sex without even exchanging telephone numbers or even getting a last name!

my own personal take on this whole online/offline love...well...i think in both situations one cant be too careful...honestly, i think MORE are suspicious and have their guard up online then when a meet is made in person for the first time.

anyway, i just found it interesting how there is such a stygma attached to online dating and that its "dangerous"...when in fact, one can learn so much more about a person online than say a true stranger at a bar.