Ugh... I have been in a relationship for a few months now. The girl that I am in the relationship with is 6 years younger than I am. We met from an online site. The first time we met in person was about 1.5-2 months after we talked the first time online. When we met, everything was wonderful and we both got along great together and everything seemed to be going well. Over the time between now and then, she has asked for my input as to how she can change herself and do things to better herself. As I offer advice to answer the questions that she has asked, she doesn't seem to like the answers that she has been given. Not just the answers I have given her, but the answers everyone has given her. She seems to be very immature. She asks for help but doesn't intend to use the information that she is given in the responses she obtains. She has been out of high school for about a year, or so. She seems to be still stuck in the high school atmosphere, because everything gets to her. She lets everyone around her that has an opinion influence her EVERY move and it is really getting to me. She sleeps all the time. She goes to bed at 2-4am, making me unable to talk with her in the mornings when NORMAL people wake up. I send her text messages and call her and so on, but I never get a response. Last night she told me that she had stuff to do today so she was going to go to bed. I didn't receive any word from her until after 1:30pm today. I have been trying and trying and trying and trying to make things work out for us, but as hard as I try, it seems the less I accomplish. She is in class right now, and I told her after her class we need to talk. I have given her SO MANY chances that I am at my wit's end and have given up. I am sitting here now trying to figure out if I really want to continue this relationship; because at this time this relationship seems to be doing more bad than good for me mentally and emotionally.
