Hi Twisted,
Role playing can be an amazing way to turn up the intensity of any
sexual relationship, but even more so in a bdsm partnership. When
you add the element of role playing, you can further create a sense
of authority and control in a scene. But there are good ways to do
this and bad ways to do this. Here is what you need to know before
you get started.
First of all, find out what your partner might fantasize about in
terms of role play. Does he or she think about being a naughty
student and you as the controlling teacher? Maybe they're into the
policeman and criminal scenario? Take some time to talk with your
partner about potential scenes that you can do with these roles.
You can even go shopping together to find the appropriate costumes
to wear. Using costumes is actually a great way to get you both
'into' the scene that you are going to do.
Once you've determined what you want to explore, try to figure out
exactly what makes that fantasy so hot for your partner. Is it the
outfits? The dirty talk? The spanking? By talking with your
partner as well as thinking about the role playing that you want to
do, try to figure out what's most important from this scene for
them as well as for you. This will intensify the experience and
help you both get into the roles more easily.
Another way to make sure the role play works well for you is to
make sure that you're staying in character as much as you can.
Talk dirty or use medical speak in a doctor - patient scene. Make
the area where you are playing look like a place the role play
could occur. Set up 'props' that will help you both get in the
mood. You want to make the 'real' world go away for the time being.
When you're new to role playing, you also want to keep in mind that
not everything will go right - that's inevitable. So, make sure
that you're not being too serious about keeping things in the role
play. What matters is that you're both having a good time. If
your accent for the French prostitute isn't perfect, don't sweat
it. And if that rope tie falls apart, simply fix it and move on
with the scene. When you let things get to you during a scene,
they will disrupt the scene more than these little 'problems.'
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More tips to make your role play work:
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* Research the role you want to play - Read stories about the
character that you will be playing. You can also read erotica
stories that include this character to help you get more ideas on
what you can do.
* Switch things up - If your partner is interested, you might
want to switch up the roles every now and then too. Or you can
change roles in the middle of the role play, if that's something
that you both want to do.
* Try new things - There are hundreds of different role play
games you can play, why not try them all?
* You really don't need anything but a vivid imagination - You
don't need to have the right clothes or props to have a fun role
play.
* Talk about the role play afterwards - Discuss what worked and
what didn't after the role play so that you can just get better
with each time you try.
Role playing is a fun thing to add to your BDSM scenes as it gives
both partners a sense of being someone else for a while - and that
can lead to intense games of control and power. Isn't that what
you want after all?
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