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Today sucks, I just found out last night that a very old friend of mines daughters were in a parasailing accident in Florida on Saturday. His oldest daughter had some injuries and his youngest daughter Amber who was 15 years old died from her injuries. I hadnt spoken Dennis in a long time and when I heard the news I called him as soon as I was able to track down his phone number. It broke my heart to hear him sound so broken. Please everyone, light some candles and say some prayers for this family. They are going to need all of the positive energy they can get sent their way. Blessings

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Today just sucks! My week with my son is over and I have to leave shortly to take him home. I have told him we have to get ready to go and he just keeps saying "But mommy I dont want to go home". He keeps telling me that he wants to stay with me. I hate this! I dont want to take him home, I wish he could just stay with me. Hes said so many things to me this week that make me wonder if I am being painted the correct picture of what really goes on in his home. He is so sensitive and innocent, all of this crap with the court between his dad and me is in no way good for him. I know his father loves him as much as I do. I know that he would never want to intentionally cause him pain. I just dont think that he and his family have really taken into consideration what a custody battle does to a child. Especially one who has special needs like our lil one does. Once upon a time, my exhusband was my best friend and now it seems as though we are at war. Its wrong to make a child suffer like this. He needs us both, not together, but at least working together, doing what is best for him. I will never give up fighting for my son, never give up being there for him. Yes its hard for me to do financially since I am on disability and they are forcing me to fight. I mean lets face it, my ex has a never ending supply of money to pay lawyers with and his dad will finance it all. But I dont care if Im poor for the rest of my life, I will go to my grave fighting to do what is best for my son. I will fight not to let him be turned into the pawn that his daddy was turned into by his own father. My ex needs to remember that this child was something we made together, that we dreamed about together. We went through alot to have him and we both loved him from the day we knew he was conceived. He needs to stop looking at the things that tore him and I apart and focus on the things that are important now. Make sure that this child knows that both of us love him, that both of us are still there for him and that not one other person means as much to the both of us as he does. Ive been a child whos dovorced parents hated eachother, who put me in the middle of all that hatred. Its not right to do this to a 5 year old, its not right to do this to any child!
The Wiccan Rede : The Wiccan Rede comes in many shapes and sizes, from the long poetic version to the short eight word version which is the one which I have chosen to use here, it goes: An it harm none, do as thou wilt. This eight word statement comes down to this: Harm None. It may sound easy, but is indeed very debatable. Many people ask about how far reaching this law actually is, and I will attempt to answer that here by comparing it to the ten commandments of the Christian faith. The ten commandments go as follows: a.. Thou shall have no other gods before me b.. Thou shall not take my name in vain c.. Thou shall remember the Sabbat and keep it holy d.. Thou shall honor thy father and mother e.. Thou shall not kill f.. Thou shall not commit adultery g.. Thou shall not steal h.. Thou shall not bear false witness against thy neighbor i.. Thou shall not covet thy neighbor's house j.. Thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife, cattle or other belongings. The only commandments a Wiccan would not immediately discard would be commandments 5-8, that is because the purpose of a religion, any religion is to aspire to become a better person, and not to appease gods. I say this because a person can be good without being religious. For this reason commandments 1-3 would have no meaning to a Wiccan. The fourth commandment says to honor your mother and father, well...Wiccans try to honor all people, indeed all living things which deserve to be honored. In other words, those people (young or old) and indeed all living things which have earned our respect will undoubtedly receive out respect. And lastly, commandments 9 and 10 are about wanting something that belongs to somebody else. Wanting something that is not ours is not harmful, but acting on it is, so it is okay to want things, but it is not okay to take action to get them....Commandments 5-8 are about killing, committing adultery and stealing etc. and all these things have a victim attached at the other end, they would cause pain to somebody or something, and thus they would be harmful. Therefore Wiccans would follow commandments 5-8. I firmly believe that The Wiccan Rede should always be obeyed. No matter what the circumstances are, then Harm None. To give you an idea of what I mean, I have written this little list of things to do: a.. Never perform a spell on somebody without their permission, for the simple reason that it would be manipulation of that persons life. Even if the spell is positive, they might not like the affect that the spell has on them. b.. Follow the Three Fold Law, which states that everything you send out, will come back to you three times stronger. This applies to magic as well as what you do everyday, e.g.: if you are nice to somebody, you will be rewarded with rich blessings in the future, BUT....if you take revenge on somebody, you could wind up with a lot of major hassles later. c.. Try and see Divinity in all beings. It will be hard to notice this in some people, but if you keep trying to see it, then you will eventually see the God and Goddess in everybody. d.. Trust your own instincts, listen to your own wisdom, and be a good judge of what is right and wrong. The 13 Principles of Wiccan Belief : The stimulus for bringing witchcraft out of the closet and opening its doors to a wider audience, was the passing of the Fraudulent Mediums Act of 1951. The passing of this act gave the individual freedom to practice so long as their activities harmed no one. Hence the Wiccan Rede. And sticking to the subject of rules and regulations.... In April, 1974, the Council of American Witches adopted a set of Principles of Wiccan Belief, which I personally follow, and therefore list here for all of you to read, and also for those of you who would like to know a bit more about the reasons why things are done the way they are. Read them carefully, and give yourself time to think about what they mean: 1.. We practice rites to attune ourselves with the rhythms of life that are marked by the phases of the Moon, the seasonal Quarters and Cross Quarters. 2.. We realize that our intelligence gives us a special responsibility towards our environment. We strive to live in harmony with Nature, to achieve a balance in the fulfillment of our lives. 3.. We acknowledge a power that is greater than that which is apparent to the average person. This power is sometimes labeled "supernatural", but we understand that it lies within that which is a natural potential to all. 4.. We see the Creative Power as a manifestation of the masculine and feminine, and that this same Power lies in all people, and functions through the interaction of the masculine and feminine. We do not value one above the other, knowing that they are supportive to each other. We value sex as pleasure, and the embodiment of life. 5.. We recognize both the outer worlds and the inner psychological world, and realize that the interaction of the two is the basis of magical exercises. We neglect neither of these, seeing both as a necessity for our fulfillment. 6.. We do not recognize any authoritarian hierarchy, but honor those that teach, respect those that share knowledge and wisdom, and acknowledge those who have the courage to lead. 7.. We see religion, wisdom and magic as being united, not only in the way we view the world, but also in the way we live in it. This philosophy of life is identified as "Witchcraft - the Wiccan Way". 8.. Giving oneself the title of "Witch", does not make you a Witch, neither does heredity, nor the collection of titles, degrees or initiations. A Witch seeks to control the forces within him/herself, thus making it possible to live wisely and well, and in harmony with Nature, and not harming others. 9.. We believe in the affirmation and fulfillment of life as a continuation of evolution, as well as the development of consciousness which gives a deeper meaning to the Universe that we know, and an understanding of our personal role within it. 10.. Our only animosity towards Christianity, or any other religion or philosophy of life, is to the extent that they claim to "be the only way", and have thusly sought to deny the freedom of choice by suppressing other ways of religious practice and systems of belief. 11.. As Witches, we are not threatened by debates on the history and origins of the Craft, nor the legitimacy of the various aspects of the traditions that surround Wicca. We are concerned with our present and our future. 12.. We do not accept the idea of absolute evil, nor do we worship the entity known as "Satan" or the "Devil", as defined by the Christian Tradition. We do not seek power through the suffering of others, and therefore do not accept that personal benefit can be derived by denial to another. 13.. We believe that we should seek within Nature that which is contributory to our health and well-being. The creed of Wicca is based on a reverence for the natural world, and the worship of a God and Goddess as principles which exist in all of nature, rather than as actual beings that exist in an ethereal realm. Wicca is primarily a lunar orientated religion, in which eight seasonal festivals, Sabbats, are celebrated. Wiccans also make use of ritual tools, which include a sacred knife (athame), and a chalice. There is also placed a lot of emphasis on psychic training and the exploration of ones spiritual abilities (path working). The 7 Solitary Laws : Here is a small list of laws that any solitary should aspire to follow, and hopefully help you on you way to becoming a better Wiccan: 1.. Worship - Know your rituals and their dates, simply because the God and Goddess are deserving of worship. 2.. Bloodshed - Always remember the Wiccan Rede, and abide by its rules. There never made sacrifices of ritual animals. 3.. Avoidance of Harm - Most important law, also stated in the Wiccan Rede. Don't cause harm unto others. 4.. Use of Magic - Magic must not be used for personal gain, and also not to harm someone else. It is, however, permissible to use magic to prevent others from causing harm. 5.. Conduct - You will not boast or threaten others, but treat them with kindness and compassion. You will not gossip about other Wiccans, and you will never interfere with the eachings of other Wiccans. 6.. Keeping the Law - The Law must be abided at all times. Never allow it to be broken. 7.. Loving the God and Goddess - Remind yourself that you are not alone and remember point no.1. The 10 Golden Rules of Witchcraft : 1.. Know what you are talking about: Nothing is sadder than talking to another witch or Wiccan whose only opinions come from misconceptions. If you call yourself pagan to shock others, you are just wasting the time of others. Learn all you can, because knowledge is your best weapon. 2.. Be honest if there is something you do not know: Most people have different areas of expertise and indeed experience, even somebody you consider to be stupid could know something you do not. You would do good to acknowledge this. 3.. Be consistent: Try to progress in a linear fashion with regards to learning about witchcraft, because jumping around from one subject to another will only confuse you and everybody else. 4.. Be willing to answer questions: Being a follower of the Wiccan religion is bound to activate some alarm bells from people. If such situations arise which call upon you to answer questions in regards to your faith, then be prepared to answer them in a polite way to the best of your abilities. Doing this will only make others admire your honesty, and openness. 5.. Do not be offended by stupid questions: Like I said in number 4, some people will have strange ideas about what they perceive Wicca and witchcraft to be. Just remember that no questions are stupid, and be glad that there are people who are curious enough to ask. You can use this as a teaching experience, and at the same time you will be affirming the reasons why you are Wiccan in the first place. 6.. Remember to have a sense of humor: This is good advice at any given time. Being able to take a joke, is sometimes a good way of opening up a conversation between yourself and others. 7.. Know something about Christianity and the bible: If you have this in your back pocket, you are better off than most, because you will be able to back up what you are rejecting by reciting a scripture or two. And like number 5 it will help you to understand them as well as yourself. 8.. Be willing to politely stand up for yourself: You don't have to start a fight, to get others to understand you, But if somebody is purposefully being mean, there is nothing in the Rede that says you cannot tell them to knock it off. 9.. Be true to yourself: People will always respond better to you if you are yourself, most people can spot a falsie. Just remember that while you might be able to hide from others, you will never be able to hide from yourself. 10.. If you talk the talk, you will have to walk the walk: It does not help if you carry on about Mother Earth, and then litter all over her. It also will not help you to rant about religions intolerance, if you show no respect for other religions. Being a hypocrite is always ugly.

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~Religion should not be about the creed we profess, it should about the life that we lead. ~Minds are like Parachutes...they only work when opened. ~The Mighty Oak tree was once a nut, who stood it's ground. ~Failure is not defeat...until you stop trying. ~Community is defined as: A group of people having common interests: the scientific community; the international business community. A group viewed as forming a distinct segment of society: the gay community; the community of color. Similarity or identity: a community of interests. **Sharing, participation, fellowship and friendship**
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