So there was this guy I was talking to and he said something so insulting and hurtful to me, it made me realize why I had some issues with guys...
He told me that since I was a thick girl I was the kind of girl that was not good enough to date but I was good enough to hook up with every once in a while.
So the way I am taking it is that Im not pretty enough (lets face it, we know he didnt like my personality)...I dont have the body he desires...but I am good enough to fuck on occasion...if that is not insulting on all levels.
Let me tell you guys something...we females have feelings ok...they get hurt like urs does when we are insulted. Its bad enough that there are so many people who make comments about big people that are negative...yes we know we are big, we look in a mirror everyday. You dont have to tell us every day and you dont have to bring us down....
I am proud of who I am...yes I have issues with my body but what girl doesnt...But I will be dammned if I am gonna change myself for some asshole because he doesnt like my body. I am gonna change my body cause I choose to. I am a smart, funny and compassionate woman and I love myself.
One day I am gonna find that special guy...who is gonna love me for me...and not worry about what society thinks about me and him being together...Im just wondering if there is such a thing...if a guy like that does exist...cause Im really doubting it at the moment...
Im a big girl...so deal with it..love me or hate but you have to respect me...
To the asshole who told me that...I hope the next girl u stick ur small dick in gives u a nasty disease and it shrivels up and falls off!!! Ur gonna end up marrying a fat girl anyways douche bag!
