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About the MARINES

I just got this in my E-mail and had to share it.
I found it very well written and it touched me when I read it.

Happy Reading.... again this was witting by someone else and NOT me...
just passing it along to some of you that may have similar questions and answers.

This could also be written for each and every branch of the Armed Forces.

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You know... I am often asked. Why did you go into the Marines?
I have found it is not why I went into the Marines...
but why I am proud to be a Marine.
I have something that I have had for a while now...
and I will share it with you...

Let's talk about something I like, Marines! Up front, let me tell you how I admire Marines.
Why is that?
Unlike the vast majority of our fellow citizens,
we stepped forward and committed ourselves to a greater cause without concern for our personal safety or comfort.
And we did it knowing that we would gain nothing in return...
except the honor and cherished privilege of earning the title of "MARINE".

Individually, we are as different as apples and oranges, but we are linked for eternity by the title "MARINE"...
and the fact that we are part of the finest fighting force that has ever existed in history.

I like the fact that you always know where you stand with a Marine!
With Marines, there is no middle ground or gray area.
There are only missions, objectives and facts.

I like the fact that if you are a self-declared enemy of America,
that running into a Marine outfit in combat is your worst nightmare...
and that your health record is about to get a lot thicker or be closed out entirely!

I like the fact that Marines are steadfast and consistent in everything they do...
regardless if you agree with them or not;

That Marines hold the term "politically correct" with nothing but pure disdain;

That Marines stand tall and rigid in their actions,
thoughts and deeds when others bend with the direction of the wind and are as confused as a dog looking at a ceiling fan!

I like the fact that each and every Marine considers the
honor and legacy of the Corps
as his personal and sacred trust to protect and defend.

I like the fact that most civilians don't have a clue what makes us tick!
And that's not a bad thing.
Because if they did,
it would scare the hell out of them!

I like the fact that others say they want to be like us,
but don't have what it takes in the
"PAIN-GAIN-PRIDE" department to make it happen.

I like the fact that the Marines came into being in a bar, Tun Tavern,
and that Marines still gather in pubs, bars and slop chutes to share sea stories and hot scoop!
I like the fact that Marines do not consider it a coincidence
that there are 24 hours in a day and 24 beers in a case.
Because Marines know there is a reason for everything that happens!

I like our motto...
SEMPER FIDELIS...
and the fact that we don't shed it when the going gets tough,
the battlefield gets deadly or when we hang up our uniform for the last time.

I like the fact that Marines take care of each other... in combat and time of peace.

I like the fact that Marines know the difference between
"Chicken Salad" and "Chicken Shit"
and aren't afraid to call either for what it is!

I like the fact that the people of America hold Marines in the highest esteem
and that they know that they can count on us to locate,
close with and destroy those who would harm them!

I like the fact that people think we are cocky...
yet we know that we have confidence in everything we do and the fact that they don't know the taste of that makes them look at us as if we are arrogant!

I like that fact that we know the taste of freedom and would give our very lives for it!
And that it is a taste that the protected will never know!

I like the fact that Ronald Regan said...
"Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference...
Marines don't have that problem!"

I like the fact that we are brothers to the end...
and that no matter what happens in life we know we have the one another's "six"!

I like the fact that a couple of years ago an elected member of congress felt
compelled to publicly accuse the Marine Corps of being
"Radical and Extreme".

I like the fact that our Commandant informed that member of Congress
that was absolutely correct and that he passed only his thanks for the compliment!

I like the fact that Marine leaders --- of every rank ---
know that issuing every man and woman a black beret ---
or polka-dotted boxer shorts for that matter does absolutely nothing
to promote morale, fighting spirit or combat effectiveness.

I like the fact that Marines are Marines first...
regardless of age, race, creed, color, sex, national origin or how
long they served or what goals they achieve in life!

I like Marines...
and I love the fact that I am able to be humbled to walk along the ranks of other Marines!
Medal of Honor for Scio Marine

The nation's highest military honor was awarded posthumously today to Corporal Jason Dunham, a Marine from Scio, New York.

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Marine Corporal Jason Dunham

Click here to send Cpl. Dunham's family a message

The messages will be posted in the WNY Pictures of Pride page.

The following is a brief description from the Pentagon of what Cpl. Dunham did to earn the Medal of Honor.

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Medal of Honor presentation



From the Pentagon:

Cpl. Dunham's squad was conducting a reconnaissance mission in Karabilah, Iraq, on April 14, 2004, when a nearby convoy returning to base was ambushed.

Hearing gunfire, Dunham and his squad rushed over to help suppress the attack. He led a team a few blocks south of the immediate ambush site and ordered his squad to block seven vehicles attempting to leave.

As they approached, an Iraqi insurgent jumped out of one of the vehicles and grabbed Dunham by the throat. As Dunham fought the enemy hand-to-hand, two Marines moved in to help.

Dunham noticed that the enemy fighter had a grenade in his hand, and ordered his Marines to move back as he wrestled the insurgent to the ground. The enemy dropped the live grenade and without hesitating Dunham took off his Kevlar helmet, covered the grenade with it, and threw himself on top to smother the blast.

Dunham's actions saved the lives of the other two Marines. Dunham will be the second serviceman and first Marine in the Global War on Terror to receive the Medal of Honor.

In 2004, Schumer wrote to the President asking him to bestow the Nation's highest military honor on the native New Yorker. Senator Schumer released this statement today:

"Corporal Dunham unflinchingly gave what Lincoln deemed 'the last full measure of devotion' and his heroism reflects the true spirit of selflessness, leadership, and courage that the Medal of Honor was established to recognize. Corporal Dunham laid down his life by shielding members of his unit from danger by throwing himself on a live grenade, an act of unbelievable bravery and selflessness that saved the lives of at least two fellow Marines. I was proud to support his nomination and want to personally congratulate his family on behalf of all New Yorkers."




Watch the Medal Ceremony



Interview with the Dunham Family



I want to PLEASE ask everyone that reads this to take a Moment to send a Message to Cpl Dunham Family.


Thanks,



David
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RIP Charles AKA " DRAGON "

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Charles died on January 11, 2007 at 8:00 am.


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@ CherryTAP


Charles gave his life protecting our country and may he and his friend rest in peace.
Charles died saving the lives of 26 men.

More like his friends.


He took over 23 shots to his body and still he fought on.
I'm sorry for all your loss in a friend.


He left behind 2 little girls back in the USA.




His team is on his page right now passing on the news.
Please go show his page much love and thanks for all he has done.


He gave the ultimate price, for our Freedom!!

BROTHERS IN ARMS

I just read this in a bulletin, and had to BLOG it. To make sure it gets out to people. Ok,anyone that knows me knows that the only people that I am a fan of is Our Military past and present. I know that I could make "more points"for becoming fans of more people...but that is not what I am here for.Well,I have also been trying to make friends with as many of them as I can without feeling overwhelmed with to many friends that I can't show proper love to. So...I have some things that I have seen this past week that bother me and I wanted to get this off my chest. First...to many of my wonderful friends that are in Afghanistan and Iraq are apologizing to us for not being able to show us proper love.THEY ARE BUSY FOLKS!!! IT IS NOT THEIR JOB TO SHOW US PROPER LOVE AND IT IS NOT THEIR JOB TO KEEP UP WITH US!! IT IS OURS!!What a wonderful privileged we have to be in a time when they can share so much with us!I would much rather see the many pictures posted...the blogs of their thoughts... the political cartoons.They can share so much more with us as a whole than they can with us individually.So...to all of you...THE ONLY THING YOU NEED TO WORRY ABOUT IT STAYING SAFE AND COMING HOME SOON TO US!!! Second...to many of my wonderful friends are defending their jobs!(Example...he is only a clerk,only a...he doesn't see combat.)Well,guess what...watch M.A.S.H. anyone that doesn't know Radar O' Reily needs a refresher!!!Could you imagine what would have happened if they didn't have Radar there?EVERY SINGLE PERSON THAT HAS CHOSEN TO SERVE IN ANY CAPACITY IS IMPORTANT!!!Where are you as you type your criticism? Safe on American soil? Getting ready to see your family this Christmas? Tucking in your children at night?Hugging your spouse?THEN THANK THEM!!!It is because we have so many wonderful men and women willing to voluntarily enter the military that we are not in a draft.It is because of them that we are safe.The problem is...you take your safety and your freedom for granted.Why don't you go on a vacation in say... Cuba...China...Iraq.If you want...you can move out of America...we won't miss you!!!So...I don't want to see any more of these wonderful men and women being bashed by any of you. Third...Ok...there are more than one place that our men and women are risking their lives for our safety in.Do you remember Afghanistan?If not...let me remind you...Ben Ladin...Planes...911.So...I am sorry that we have to have soldiers there looking for a needle in a hay stack...but I am glad they are there.Then there is Iraq...I don't care what your view is on if we should be there or not.I am not here for politics...Our soldiers take an oath. Go into any recruiting office and ask to see a copy of that oath.They don't get to choose what orders they fallow...they just get to choose which Country they get to follow.And thank God for them! Thank God they are there for us!!!If you want to give a soldier hell for doing what he has to do... go to a recruiting office...a base...and say it to them in person. They won't be able to hit you or anything...but at least they will be able to look into the face of the pathetic person that they defend for their right to be stupid!!! Fourth...So far...I haven't found a fake soldier...and then there was yesterday.Funny...he started to attack one of my family members and accusing them of being fake.He started to accuse them of having fake pictures.Of saying he is a soldier for attention.Saying that he did not look like a regulation soldier. yada yada yada...Funny thing...I was on his page rating and commenting on his pictures when he started to shout at me in the shout box about being careful because there are a lot of fake soldiers and he doesn't think this one if real.So...I sent that shout to this family member who politely asked his fellow brother in arms(my family members words not mine)to come and talk to him.He has nothing to hid and would be glad to share with him information about what he does in in the service for our country and how he could prove to him he was real...Funny thing...this man never wrote him back.Looked at his page...I can't get past the pictures of his abs and the self centered pictures of him being buff.Good for you...the family member you attacked...was my very first family member added. He shares with me more depth in his pictures and more depth in his person than I believe you have in your pretty abs. You have used your status as a soldier to pick up chicks(if you really are one)My family member has not.My family member will tell you flat out that he is married...and he has a beautiful wife and baby boy.What do you have?Oh yah...a mouth and your abs...keep looking in the mirror.I have more important people to pay attention to. Fifth...I am tired of going on the pages of Our military family members and seeing them being attacked.I am also tired of going on a page and seeing that one of my friends that is a mother, brother,sister,lover,wife,husband ect...of one of our bravest sending a public comment on your page to say that you have attacked them.I have seen some very cruel words...I have seen some asshole telling a wife that her husband was overseas cheating on her right now.I saw a grandmother being told her grandson was going to die in Iraq because we are not supposed to be there.I saw a lady who actually was mourning the loss of one of ours...had a comment on her page that her loved one deserved it...chose what he did and to get over it!That person said they were tired of people being on here posting all of these bulletins about soldiers dying. Well,I guess it is easy for you to enjoy your freedom if you can choose not to remember the price that has been paid and is being paid to defend it.Here is the thing...these people that you are attacking...are far better people that you will ever have in your life.You will never have a wife or husband as loyal...you will never have a mother or father so proud...you will never have a friend that cares as deeply as we care for our Military.And the reason you will never have these things is because you are to selfish to look at the wold with empathy. And last...I am tired of being attacked...and I am tired of my friends being attacked because we support Our Troops!If you don't like the attention we show Our Military on our page...STAY OFF OF IT!!!! It is hard to believe with as many members on Cherry Tap that here are that you can't find people of your own kind to congregate with.You can take yourself to your page and your friends...I will stay here with mine.You can be into what you want to be into...I can be into what I am. In the end...I thank God that we live in such a wonderful time that there is the internet.I would much rather hear about what is happening there... or if the fight is worth it...from our Military than from our press or our Government.I also think it is wonderful that there is a way to talk to Our brave men and women as much as possible...for free.We can show them pictures of Our family's, we can share with them what is going on.They can share with us.Just think...a wife can take a video of her son's first steps...post it on here...and daddy gets to see it!!We have many things wrong with the world today...but what an awesome time is this that we can hear from Our Loved Ones in the service more than any other time? So...that is my thoughts...Please keep this reposting for me.I want as many of our Men and Women in uniform past and present...I want as many of our friends and family members to see this as possible.
And please remember...if you can't stand if front of Our Troops...feel free to stand behind them!! Your Family Member,Friend and or Fan, Brenda Heartsound Heartsound
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http://www.clermontyellow.accountsupport.com/flash/UntilThen.swf During the holiday season, I hope everyone will keep our troops who are deployed and their families in your thoughts and prayers. I know that the war in Iraq is an extremely controversial topic these days, but whether you support the war or not, our soldiers deserve our respect and our support. Unfortunately, because of the war controversy and many peoples dislike of the situation in Iraq, this contempt gets placed on our troops and they are coming home to a country that no longer shows support and thanks to them for the service they provide. We take many things for granted in this country, including our freedom, which we would not have if it was not for our fathers and grandfathers, etc., and which we won't have in the future if it wasn't for those who selflessly volunteer to serve their country. Please remember that it is the people that we elect (which I hope EVERYONE voted) who decide for these men and women where they go and what their missions are, not the troops themselves. Below are different organizations that you can get involved with or make a donation to that will help our troops and show your support of those who are ultimately serving you! If it is not something you would normally do, then please consider at least involving yourself with one of these during the holidays, a time that is made for giving and being thankful. http://soldiersangels.org/ Soldiers angels is a wonderful organization in which you can adopt a soldier and write letters to them. To adopt a soldier you must commit to sending a card or letter a week and AT LEAST 1 or 2 care packages a month, so please be committed if you choose to do this. http://www.americasupportsyou.mil/americasupportsyou/index.aspx http://www.operationusocarepackage.org/site/pp.asp?c=ikLVJ7MSKvH&b=569653 http://adoptaplatoon.org/new/ http://www.anysoldier.com/ http://www.booksforsoldiers.com/ http://www.packagesfromhome.org/ Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans of America http://www.ourfallensoldier.com www.letssaythanks.com/Home1024.html Thanks to: sambollina
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@ CherryTAP For letting me REBLOG this

RIP JESSIAH JAMESON!!

A lot of you Already have heard the News.
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RIP JESSIAH JAMESON!!

INSTEAD OF SENDING FLOWERS TO ERIN

It has been requested that you visit this site: http://www.cafepress.com/jessiahjameson




ALL the money that is made is donated to Erin and her son.

May Jessiah rest in peace.
May Erin and Jessiah Jr have peace in their hearts and strength to get thru this time in their lives.

Please repost this and get the word out...There will be more shirts up in a little bit..But Please buy a t-shirt or even a button ANYTHING helps..

An US Army Veteran

If you support your country and believe that we should be over in Iraq then repost this with your branch of choice. If you do not support your country then repost this with the reason you don't support them. Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting
I fully Agree with this Letter

Subject: FW: Letter to John Kerry from a Sergeant in Iraq
Date: Fri, 10 Nov 2006 10:17:25 -0500

Soldiers are murdering rapists according to John Kerry
This is something that should be all over the media!!!!!

{This was written by my husband, Aaron, who is currently deployed to Iraq, in defense of a recent comment made by Senator John Kerry. Pass it along, it might inspire someone else to speak up! ~ Michelle}

Yesterday John Kerry said, "You know education, if you make the most of it, you study hard, you do your homework, and you make an effort to be smart, you can do well, and if you don't, you get stuck in Iraq"

So I wrote him a letter:

I am a Sergeant in the United States Marine Corps. I am currently on my second tour in Iraq, a tour in which I volunteered for. I speak Arabic and Spanish and I plan to tackle Persian Farsi soon. I have a Bachelors and an Associates Degree and between deployments I am pursuing an M.B.A. In college I was a member of several academic honor societies, including the Golden Key Honor Society. I am not unique among the enlisted troops.

Many of my enlisted colleagues include lawyers, teachers, mechanics, engineers, musicians and artists just to name a few. You say that your comments were directed towards the President and not us. If we were stupid Senator Kerry, we might have believed you.

I am not a victim of President Bush. I proudly serve him because he is my Commander and Chief. If it was you who was President, I would serve you just as faithfully. I serve America Senator Kerry, and I am also providing a service to the good people of Iraq. I have not terrorized them in the middle of the night, raped them or murdered them as you have accused me of before. I am doing my part to help them rebuild. My role is a simple one, but important. You see Senator Kerry, like it or not, we came here and removed a tyrant (who terrorized Iraqis in the middle of the night, and raped them and murdered them). And we have a responsibility to see to it that another one doesn't take his place. The people of Iraq are recovering from an abusive relationship with a terrible government and it's going to take some time to help them recover from that. We can't treat this conflict like a microwave dinner and throw a temper tantrum because we feel like it's taking too long.

Senator Kerry, you don't have to agree with this war. You don't have to say nice things about those of us who choose to make sacrifices for the rights of every American rather than sit back and simply feel entitled to it. But please Senator Kerry, if you're going to call me a stupid murdering rapist, stick by what you say. Don't tell me that I misunderstood or that you would never insult a veteran because you're one too. Having been there and done that does not give you a free pass to insult me.

My suggestion for you, Senator Kerry, is to remember that your speeches are recorded, and broadcast to us simpletons over here. You may want to write down what you want to say before you say it, maybe have somebody look at it before you say it and tell you what others might hear. Remember that we can't read your mind, if there are any misinterpretations in what you say, it's because you didn't communicate clearly.

Good luck to you Senator Kerry, if nothing else it's always entertaining to watch you try and climb out of the holes that you constantly dig for yourself.




Sincerely,



Somebody who is watching his daughter grow up in photographs so that you can have the right to say whatever you want about him.
MISSING SOLDIER FROM FORT CAMPBELL!!! PLEASE READ!! Most of you on my friends list I speak to quite frequently and some of you are very dear friends of mine. Now I am banking on that friendship as I am in need. My friend Jessiah has gone missing, it has been 5 days now and there is no sign of him anywhere. He has recently come home from Iraq, and we fear he may be suffering some post-traumatic stress syndrome or something. He has a wife, who is the sweetest girl you will ever meet, and a young son, who are both in Washington right now and pretty much powerless to do anything down here. He has not used his cell phone or credit cards, his car is parked in the same spot it has been in......we are in fear of his life. He was last seen leaving Kickers, which is in a pretty bad area of town and right by the river. He has been listed on the National Missing Persons Database and yesterday his case was assigned to a detective. PLEASE HELP US! Go take a look at his profile, his URL is http://www.myspace.com/jessiahjameson. If anyone has ANY information concerning his whereabouts, no matter how trivial it may seem, please message me and I will give you my contact #. PLEASE REPOST THIS, AND KEEP ERIN AND JESSIAH JR. IN YOUR PRAYERS. Much love and appreciation, Simone For those of you receiving this message who arent on my friends list, I am sorry for the intrusion, but we are at our wits end. Thanksgiving is only days away, and Jessiah Jr. is asking for his daddy. Even if you just took the time to read this, it is much appreciated. (repost of original by '*~*Rakkasan Wifey!!!*~*' on '2006-11-21 11:40:28') again that URL is: http://www.myspace.com/jessiahjameson
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Cpl. Jessiah Jameson, 21, of Company B, 2nd Battalion of the 506th Infantry Regiment, with his wife, Erin and his now-22-month-old son. They had planned to move to Washington state when Jameson disappeared in Clarksville last Thursday night. *************************************************** A Fort Campbell 4th Brigade soldier has been reported missing for a week, and his family has flown to Clarksville from Washington state to search for him. Cpl. Jessiah Jameson, 21, of Company B, 2nd Battalion of the 506th Infantry Regiment, was last seen at Kickers Country Club on Riverside Drive Nov. 16, said Clarksville Police spokesman Andy Bechtold. Jameson was removed from the nightclub for being intoxicated and was believed to have taken a cab to a motel but never arrived, Bechtold said. Jameson's car was left in the business' parking lot. Bechtold said at this point, investigators have no reason to suspect foul play. Jameson's wife, son, mother and mother-in-law arrived at the Nashville airport around 4 p.m. Wednesday. His wife, Erin Jameson, said they planned to distribute fliers and talk to friends about where he could be. "We're going to try to do all we can do," she said. Jessiah Jameson returned from a yearlong deployment in Iraq on Nov. 14, and he was planning to move with his wife and 22-month-old son to his hometown of University Place, Wash., where they recently leased an apartment. Erin Jameson reported her husband missing Sunday after not hearing from him since 8 p.m. Nov. 16, Bechtold said. Mrs. Jameson said her husband hasn't used his debit card or turned on his cell phone since Thursday. "I know for a fact he wouldn't be doing this voluntarily," she said. "It's not something he would do. He loves his son too much." Mrs. Jameson said friends have told her he'd been in good spirits lately. She said her husband was taking care of "all the little things" for their move to Washington. He was also helping to plan an upcoming extended family vacation and a separate vacation for just he and his wife. Word about Cpl. Jameson's disappearance has spread across the Internet through a Myspace.com page, and Erin Jameson has received support from friends, family and even strangers. "I've gotten an absolutely overwhelming response," she said. She had 500 messages in her Myspace inbox Tuesday night. "I had to go to bed before I could even read them all," she said. The family has tickets to fly back Dec. 1, but Mrs. Jameson said if anything changes, they will change their schedule. Matt Rennels can be reached at 245-0236 or by e-mail at mattrennels@theleafchronicle.com.
(repost of original by 'Heartsound-Proud daughter of a King!' on '2006-11-24 06:11:51')
Military mothers yearn to be whole
16,000 single moms are serving in Iraq, and strains don’t end upon return


http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/15871419/ 061123_wp_iraqmom_hmed_6p.h2.jpg Sgt. Leana Nishimura assembles shelving at her newly rented home in Havre de Grace, Md. Her children have been staying with her mother in Hawaii. She's unpacking and preparing the house for the arrival of her two boys, T.J., 8, and Dylan, 7, and her daughter Cheyenne, 4.

By Donna St. George The Washington Post Updated: 11:11 p.m. ET Nov 23, 2006 When they called her name, she could not move. Sgt. Leana Nishimura intended to walk up proudly, shake the dignitaries' hands and accept their honors for her service in Iraq — a special coin, a lapel pin, a glass-encased U.S. flag. But her son clung to her leg. He cried and held tight, she recalled. And so Nishimura stayed where she was, and the ceremony last summer went on without her. T.J. was 9, her oldest child, and although eight months had passed since she had returned from the war zone, he was still upset by anything that reminded him of her deployment. He remembered the long separation. The faraway move to live with his grandmother. The months that went by without his mother's kisses or hugs, without her scrutiny of homework, her teasing humor, her familiar bedtime songs. Nishimura was a single mother — with no spouse to take over, to preserve her children's routines, to keep up the family apartment. Of her three children, T.J. seemed to worry most. He sent letter after letter to the war zone, where she was a communications specialist, part of the Maryland National Guard. "He went from having one parent to having no parents, basically," Nishimura said, reflecting, "People have said, 'Thank you so much for your sacrifice.' But it's the children who have had more of a sacrifice." When war started in Iraq, a generation of U.S. women became involved as never before. More than 155,000 women have served in Iraq and Afghanistan — in a wider-than-ever array of jobs, for long deployments, in a conflict with daily bloodshed. Among their ranks are more than 16,000 single mothers, according to the Pentagon, a number that military experts say is unprecedented. How these women have coped and how their children are managing have gone little-noticed as the war stretches across a fourth year. "It has to be one of the hardest things that a mom and her children have to go through," said Steven Mintz, a University of Houston professor with an expertise in family life. "You can't cuddle a young child over the phone, and you can't cuddle a child through e-mail." In the military, parental status is not a barrier to serving in a war. All deploy when the call comes—single mothers, single fathers, married couples — relying on a "family-care plan" that designates a caregiver for children when parents are gone. The thinking is that a soldier is a soldier. "Everyone trains to a standard of readiness and must be able to be mobilized," said Lt. Col. Mike Milord of the National Guard Bureau. But war duty can be especially difficult for single parents. A year ago, Nishimura returned to the United States to face practical difficulties. Emotional issues. And unavoidable questions concerning her children: Will there be another deployment? What if a parent does not come back? Home, but still apart On a cool, dusky Saturday evening last November, her bus arrived at the red brick Maryland National Guard Armory in Towson. There were yellow ribbons and welcome-home banners. A crowd of supporters cheered and cried. One soldier walked off the bus and kissed the ground. Nishimura fell into the embrace of two friends who had come to meet her, but she felt disconnected from the emotion of the moment. Instead, she noticed a friend who had returned on the same bus—and was now hugging her husband and son. She wondered: When would she see her own children? Before Iraq, Nishimura had worked as a teacher and cheerleading coach at a Christian school in Prince George's County. Her National Guard duty, with the 129th Signal Battalion, brought in extra money. Her ex-husband paid child support. Still, she only scraped by, with the help of public assistance. Now her life was like a puzzle with missing pieces. Her children—Cheyenne, then 3; Dylan, then 6; and T.J., then 7—were in Hawaii, being cared for by their grandmother. Nishimura did not have the money to fly them back. She had no home for them, either, having long ago given up her apartment. As she got off the bus, she could not help but dwell on one fact of timing: Christmas was 50 days away. Would they be together for the holiday? She was heartened by a good lead on a full-time contracting job with the National Guard. But there was a glitch: It would mean relocating to Havre de Grace, Md., 100 miles north of her old home in Waldorf. If she got the job, she had decided, the family would move there. For the kids, the move to her mother's house in Hawaii had meant new schools, new friends and a new caregiver with a high-rise apartment and a full-time job. Nishimura's 3-year-old daughter seemed to have the toughest time, said grandmother Cynthia Nishimura. She cried at night and at day care. Unable to grasp the concept of a faraway war, the girl had absorbed only her mother's mode of transportation. "Mommy works on an airplane," she told people. Her brothers knew more. T.J., in particular, knew that Iraq was dangerous. For a time, he watched war coverage on television. He saw the violence, heard about casualties. Finally, his grandmother banned the news. The essential phone calls In Iraq, Nishimura was attached to a soft flannel pillow adorned with the faces of her three children. "God's gifts," it read. "This is why I Fight!" She hugged it at night, even packing it in her duffle bag when she left the base. As often as she could, she talked to her children by phone, and they had a ritual: At the end of every call, they counted one, two, three — and then made noisy kisses in unison. Now she was back in the United States, still clutching the pillow and talking on her cellphone, the children still thousands of miles away. In a matter of weeks, Nishimura landed the job in Havre de Grace and found a little duplex to rent — with wood floors and a big picture window—using all that she had to cover the rent and security deposit. There was a little yard. The public school was down the block. On the day her new telephone service was connected, Nishimura called her children. Then the phone rang. "Hi, Mommy," her oldest son said. Her middle child called next. "Hi, Mommy," he said. The phone rang again. "Mommy, I wanted to call you, too," her daughter announced. Nishimura assured them that they would be together soon. Some days, she wondered how. For airline tickets, she had pinned her hopes on the well-known charitable program Operation Hero Miles, which donates airline miles to U.S. service members. It was only in late November that she learned the program was geared to hospitalized troops and their families. She and her children did not qualify. Nishimura then took heart when fellow guardsmen offered to donate miles to her — only to learn that airlines would not allow such mileage transfers. At 29 years old, she had no credit cards, she said, having badly damaged her credit in the financial turmoil of her divorce. While in Iraq, she sent her earnings to her mother for her children's care. "I'm pretty discouraged," she admitted one afternoon four weeks after she flew home. The grace of others Help came in unexpected bits. There were groceries delivered by the pastor and elder of the church across the street. There was a bed for her daughter donated by her new boss. There were clothes and food and other help from volunteers Mary and Paul Crawford. Much of this happened because Nishimura was "adopted" by First Christian Church of Havre de Grace through a National Guard program, Partners in Care, which links needy soldiers with congregations. Then one of her senior officers, Maj. Timothy Mullen, wrote letters on her behalf, which inspired contributions for the plane tickets from three chapters of the 29th Division Association, a veterans group, and four churches. Twelve days before Christmas, it all came together: The children and their grandmother would board Christmas Day flights, which were least expensive, at a total cost of less than $1,500, covered largely by the generosity of strangers. "It was probably one of the best things I've seen happen in a long time," said Mullen. "I don't think anyone [in the unit] had the volume of issues she had." Nishimura's children bounded off a plane the morning after Christmas. "I hugged Mommy first!" she recalled her daughter exclaiming. Nishimura, in tears, felt the worst was behind them. Shaken and nervous On a bright day in January, Nishimura walked her children to church, glad to be back to her old life, to be thinking about Sunday school and loose teeth and untied shoes and homework. But the experience of war did not easily fade. She had been based in Tikrit, amid mortars that shook the earth, near roads where bombs were often hidden. Now she found herself seized by sudden tears, insomnia and nightmares. In one dream, she saw herself doing a military crawl, with her middle child on her back, as bombs exploded around them. In another, she hunted everywhere for her children, but they were gone. "Either I'm separated and I can't find them," she said, "or I am with them and we are in danger. " She eventually saw a counselor, who told her she had post-traumatic stress disorder and gave her medication . The stress of war came on top of the stress of life. Her closest friends lived far away. There were new schools, new neighbors. Her job paid well and she still got child support, but it was hard to make ends meet. Over time, her family settled in: her sons joining baseball teams, her daughter signing up for gymnastics. The family bought one pet bird and rescued another. "I feel like it's finally coming together," she said one spring morning. Then her oldest son cried at the sight of her packing a suitcase for a short business trip. And after a veterans celebration at school, he refused to open his books. Finally, she said he told her: "I don't want you to go again." Experts say that emotional fallout for children can come and go after war. "Kids, at some level, must feel a sense of abandonment," said Mintz, the Houston professor. Recently, Nishimura switched military jobs, becoming a chaplain's assistant. She wants to make the military a career, although she could be redeployed. "I tell [the children] that if God needs Mommy to go . . . then Mommy's going to have to go again and they're going to have to let me." Last week, Nishimura, in uniform, gave a presentation about Iraq to her sons' Cub Scout pack. The boys were about to make care packages for U.S. troops, and she wanted to let them know about life as a soldier. "I carried my M-16 wherever I went," she told them. T.J. listened wide-eyed. "I had to go one whole year without seeing my kids," she let them know. "How would you feel if you went one whole year without seeing your Mommy and Daddy?" "Lonely," volunteered one scout. "I would go crazy," another said emphatically. T.J. spoke up without reluctance. "I cried a lot," he told them. His mother was surprised by his admission, then glad. When the boys went on to making cards for the troops, T.J. said he was reminded of all the letters he had sent her in Iraq. His own message to the war zone was simple. It read, "Come back safely!" © 2006 The Washington Post Company http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/15871419/
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