Please forgive me, i am going to ramble a bit. I am so frustrated that if I had hair I would be pulling it out. First off, a little background,. The reasons I am no longer with my wife is that I reached the end of a long, long rope. For years we didn't get a long well. Sure there were some reaspnable times, but we were NOT happy with each other. She has some psychological problems and I ran out of the ability to be me and identify her also. I know that may not make any sense, but it comes down to ; I couldn't even go to work without being caalled 20 times a day and if I left work not at exactly when she thought I should, she would be on the phone screaming at me, and pacing up and down the driveway until I got there. But that's not what I'm trying to get off my chest now.
Her mother is in failing health. She no longer jas the strength to be by herself and because I am not a complete ogre, I have told my wife, (since i live about 20 minutes closer than she does or her brother) that if there is a problem, let me know and I will go over and pick her up if she falls and help if i can. I understand that this can be trying, even for a 50 year old woman (my ex), but her mother is getting old and thety are trying to get her into a care facility of some sort. I got a call about an hour and a half ago that the MIL was stuck and couldn't get up. My ex called and asked if i coul meet her there to help get her up. I got there and the first thing she said was what was I doing. i told her I had just finished dinner--she said __with who? It really is none of her business but I told her I was alone. Then she asked if i had a "hot date that she was keeping me from,. Then I said that later I was going to go dancing with my dance club-- (after I left, I started dance lessons and belong to a swing and hustle dance club now)--and she started accusing me of things-then said she missed me and asked if i missed her-I said "let's not go there" a, gave her a supportive hug because she was crying about her mother, told her to take care and left. Ten minutes later, my daughter calls up SCREAMING at me for being mean to her mother--I DIDN"T DO ANYTHING!!!!!! She wonders why I left---unfortunately, it boils down to her being an unstable person and I can't deal with it anymore--I tried for twenty eight years--and I am tired!!!
Sorry, I just needed to get this off my chest
