GR82BME's blog: "SOme of Life's Questions"

Why is it that we look at each other with eyes of mistrust and disgust, merely because we are ignorant of the path of anpthers existance? Who are we to judge each other, when we are obviously not in a position to judge. As we see others, they also see us. For every part of another that we find distainful, someone feels the same toward us. Is it not better to accept each other, and be open to listen to, and truly HEAR their beliefs and their phiosophies before passing judgement. None of us is so superior to another that we can afford to be closed minded and egotistical enough to believe that we are any better than the person walking barefoot in ragged clothes, homeless...beside us

I was just on another members blog, and she commented that she wished guys would just say a girl i beautiful instead of using a charged word like sexy. I responded that, in my opinion, they are two totally separate entities. I person (woman or man) can be exceptionally physicallyattractive (beautiful) without evoking emotion, such as looking at the sunsetover a crystal blue lake, passing behind mountains in the distance, or a country drive in the autumn with the multicolored leaves, or the first snowfall-the pure blanket of white----those are beautiful---but they do not evoke a physiucally passionate response--yes, they can make you melt inside or feel warmth-but no stirring----sexy, on the other hand, really has nothing to do with physical beauty. The inner soul is what really determines sexy-an actual phsical response is felt-a stirring, (not necessarily like you are thinking--get your mind out of the gutter) but there is something different. If a person is "beautiful" inside---rather than outside---THAT is what makes thenm sexy--- yes, guys a lot of times use sexy as a way of describing a beautiful woman--but---they also call "average" women sexy---which, in my opinion, is much greater a compliment than beautiful, or pretty OK, I will get off the soapbox now :)