purefairydust's blog: "General Interest"

It is always nice to hear from old friends. You lose touch with some people, through the changes in your life or theirs. But when they contact you it is refreshing to hear from them. Sometimes you take the back seat so as not to interfere with their life, especially when you think they have someone special in their life. A good friend understands that life can get a bit hectic with a new girlfriend or boyfriend. A friend understands you two are just getting to know each other and it take most of your focus. You always wish the best for your friends. Hoping they found the one that they have been looking for. You feel sad for the sake of your friend when it doesn't work out. You stand by and let your friend know you care about them. Life is not easy by no mean and why complicate them anymore then need be. Friendship is a wonderful thing to have.

I feel sorry for all you guys that think a woman should be a man's slave. Mostly this kind of thinking comes from a man that is trying to put women down, they always say they are not, but the sick truth is they do. If a man has this type of problem they need to steer clear of me. I was raised never to bow down to a man. A woman is just as smart as a man. A woman has many unseen strengths that are a asset. A woman uses her brain over braun. A woman is not to be used and thrown away, but to be cherished and worshipped. If you are not into cherishing and worshipping the essences of a woman, you need to walk in the other direction, because I don't need you around.

How I got my pets is a story in it self. They are both throw away dogs. Each was 4 years old when I got them. The first one I got was my little terrier Buddy. I got him and his brother, Kipper, they were 4 years old and not used to human touch. I rescue them before they got to the animal shelter, the owners daughter-in-law was bring them in after work and I worked with her. The owner had them in their yard and fed them cat food, but never handled them. It took me two months for them to even let me touch them. Found out later that the previous owner was pet breeder and could not sell them so that was the reason they were like that. Then one day someone stole Kipper from my yard. Poor Buddy was hiding at the back of the dog house I bought for them. It took another two months for him to come out of his shell and trust me. I had to train him to become a inside dog. With me working I knew he had to be lonely so I decide to get another dog so he would have company. I went to the animal shelter and got Ozzie, my dapple daschaund. He had mental issues and cried all of the time. Ozzie's previous owner had a sick child and the dog was too much on them. I think that is why Ozzie would cry, because that is what he learn being with a sick children in pain. They are both very laid back now and loving dogs. Ozzie doesn't cry, Buddy doesn't get nervous around people anymore. They are very protective and sleep in the same bed.

I thought I had the emotion covered up, but everyone around me keeps asking if I am alright. I just tell them it is my allergies. In part it is, but not totally. My life could be very much different. I gave up things and also had things ripped from me that would have torn up a weaker person. I keep things well hidden behind the walls I have built. I grew up knowing that people will take something from your life and twist it like a knife and cut you to pieces. Even my closest friends don't know what lies deep within these walls of my soul.

It seems that married men are constantly wanting to talk with you. The subject always ends up about sex. They either say that they are in a sexless relationship or a open relationship. Please we all know it is neither. The wife isn't the one with the problem it is them. If they would put half the effort towards their wife instead of pursuing single women, they would be sexually satisfied and would not to be on the prowl. I really don't want to know how hard they are getting from looking at my picture or from a conversation. I am not into married men, they have made their bed and now need to lie in it. I am not into a relationship with them and don't want a relationship with them. I have friends that are married, but the friendship is with both the husband and the wife, not sexual in anyway. In every marriage there are good times and bad times. If you are married you need to work with your mate to make it better, not find ways to avoid working on the problems in it. Because you are married it doesn't mean you give up at romancing, you did it during courtship and it needs to be done during marriage. Ever see a successful marriage, it is not all happiness all of the time. The couple work at making the other feel important and find ways to come together on their diffences. Even the older couple that seem to have little tiffs daily, they find ways to make it work and sleep together nightly. So if you are married, work at your marriage and not at trying to get me to join in on your one sided relationship.