Let me start by saying I will not be running famps any time soon so if I am in your family only as a trade you can remove me and I won't be hurt at all.
I'll explain reasons why.
Family to me has always been people I care about, people who have helped me, and people I want to help. With only 50 spaces I have had to juggle and move between top friends and family so I can find people easily. When I ran my 1st 2 famps I found people benefiting from me that had pulled me from their family during their famps. This last run a girl complained to my hubby that I was in her family but she wasn't in mine even though she had never run a famp. I realize I am in more families then I have space to return.I found myself having to pull people to make room.
While I have greatly appreciated the people who have included me and have made new friends, it has taken away from what I care most about. I have gotten caught up in the rank game which really doesn't mean anything in the long run. What I like best about fu and the reason I stay is to help others. Especially the lower level friends who can't afford to buy bling and work their butts off to advance.
If I have hurt you by pulling you from my family I apologize. That was never my attention.
Bobbie