Just wondering? When people say they are going to do something, anything really, start a new job...have a baby...join the military...do they ever really think about what they are doing? What that decision will mean to them?
Maybe I am just crazy, but if you are going to devote a part of your life to something...and yes just about every major thing i listed requires some devotion to...you HAVE to know what you are getting into. You have to be prepared to be the best at what every it is.
Why does it seem as though countless people are jumping head first into life altering choices just because they think that "it was a good idea at the time" and they end up not having done any research, any reading, no questions asked...just wing it and see what happens? really?
Folks that do this...PLEASE... understand that you are someone in the world that affects others and even if you never want to be judged, labeled, or WTF ever else you want to call it..you ARE! If i start a new job and suck at it, then thats my "name" i am dragging through the dirt. if i decide to have a baby with someone, but turn out to be the worse father in the world, thats a life i have ruined (unfairly), if i join the military and choose to not apply myself then thats the country i am letting down and again its my good name, good family name i am tarnishing. If you want to suck at life and be a bum, or a argue/fight/etc with everything that the society that i have choosen to live in, believes, then i have helped narrow the problem with the world...it would be ME. If i choose to get a job, walk around with a "I dont give a F^*# attitude, and get fired...its not their fault, it would be mine. some people need to wake the F up, grow the F up, and take responsibility for their own actions...
there is my soap box for the night...PEACE!
