I must say this.....men who invite a woman into thier life knowing they have children involved should be shot if they don't like kids.
Why not 1st get to know yourself (your likes & dislikes)
learn how to properly provide for yourself
then get involved if you still feel its right.
I am so feeling burned right now its not funny. If i have 1 more pretender just out for a quick roll in the hey i'll go postal.