Dear Ladys
Please don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of, another thing is please don't hump everything that walks into the room. We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys, but when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room then you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us. yeah, it pisses us off. It also doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. when we tell you you're pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, cute, or stunning we mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong because doing that confuses some, makes others feel like they're doing something wrong and the rest We'll stop trying to convince you after some time. Soon you will start to think that he doesn't love you or he thinks your ugly. We just don't want to fight and the sexiest thing about a girl is her confidence. (well thats what i think)
When a guy holds the door open for you, and/or offers to pay for dinner please dont jump the gun and assume that he wants something from you. Some of us were tought to be gentleman others... i don't know what happen. I know that there are lots of guys just looking for sex but some do want more. I know some of you like to pay your own way and thats fine also just explain to the guy. Some of you dont like P.D.A and thats fine for most guys but some may think hes the 2nd guy, you dont like him, your trying to use him, or your trying to hide the fact that your with him. Please explain so we understand THANK YOU. When we take you to some place, you don't have to get dressed up for us. The places themselves is different. We may not tell you to put on a dress and we may be vague about what we say. an example (hey hun, im taking you out some where NICE tonight or i know a good RESTAURANT to eat at.) we are trying at this point to take you on a nice date. for hangout cloths we'll say something like (lets get something to eat, or lets meet with friends for dinner) If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own just to keep a hold of us.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you put on. Sex stuff thats something you'll have to talk to your man about.
Ladys, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change. Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-population ass, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect. Someone who will honor your morals, and
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Please dont judge them if its a medical condition.
