This is am Mumm i came across
Why is it that many people (men & women)choose to remain in relationships even though they are treated like crap. Why do people allow themselves to be lied to and cheated on repeatedly? Common sense (which isn't very common) dictates that the best thing to do would be to let go. Why is that so difficult for some?
Here are some answers i found interesting!
Women get off on being treated like pieces of sh@t
They stay with the guys that treat them like crap then go to the good guys for the "emotional/moral" support, all at the same time leading the good guys on and letting them think they're into them and just saunter on back to the f@ckheads.
But hey, that's life.(bullSh!T)
By that time, the woman has fallen in love with the creep and when he promises to never act that way again, he just keeps getting worse.(True)
think it is the fact that no matter how bad you are treated you are a comfortable place.You fear the unknown.How do you know that it will be better with someone else. It would but people are afraid of being alone and never finding your mate.You need to be comfortable with you and respect yourself then no matter what relationship you are in you will know how you want to be treated.(Yes very true)
So i have been asking the same question myself lately. Why do men choose to remain in relationships even though they are treated like crap. Why do people allow themselves to be lied to and cheated on repeatedly?
I guess as a women that was in a marriage at one time being treating like Sh@t I know why stayed it was for all the wrong reasons. Why do more men
take this treatment from women? My theory that its more attractive to a man when a women that is needy , has no self respect, no self esteem, slutty. Than a women that is not needy , has self respect and has self esteem and not a slut unattractive! WHAT THE HELL??
So i have decide not date anyone serious
and not get involved with anyone. I'm done I would rather be lonely than to deal with this CR@P anymore!
