I know for me I won't go out with a master. I only go out with dominant men. If you can understand that there are differences in them then you can understand why I question a caring master. I am a woman of defiance. I love the playfulness of pulling away when I am being made to do something. Then the punishment for my actions. I have found men that spank for their pleasure without thinking of the woman.....I have found men that spank too lite.... Then I have found men that spank without really knowing where to spank. But then there are those that know just how to treat you....You allow them to take you further then anyone else does. Whether it is spanking, tying you up, vibration, dildos, anal, e-stim, or whatever you can think of....but my thing is spanking....I had one that spanked me for well over an hour..... When he knew I was feeling it too much he started to caress me on my erotic spots (the back of my neck, the base of my spine) When in him doing this it made me feel like not one anymore....we were whole.
So some man telling me what to do and making me do it would really defy who I truely am as a person and in pleasure.
