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It can be so hard to tell the what people are really like sometimes!

I am a firm believer in online romance and the idea that you can meet somebody on here and develope real feeling and love them. I am just don't think you can believe everything you hear!

Just like real life some people are just out to get laid. Hell, there's nothing wrong with that! We all just need a good romp from time to time...no strings attached.

But guys...grow a set and be upfront with it. Truthfully you would have better results that way anyways..and you won't be wasting anybody's time. Times have changed and women are just as capable as men when it comes to a bootycall/friends with benefits/one night stand.

If your interested...


Now its not always about the sex either. i think some just need companionship. Don't have much time in real life to go out and meet people but can manage to get online while working or when they get home. So they confide in you and you confide in them and you create a long distance relationship.

Ok so these feelings are genuine...but there's a catch. (Isn't there always) Obviously their time is consumed by their jobs. So if you want to be able to move things closer together a lot will have to be giving up. Somebody will have to relocate. If they are consumed by their jobs then you can count on this never happening. The reasons they were online to meet you in the first place is because they don't have time to go out. their career is more important than a social life so why the hell do you think that you can change this! You can't!

I KNOW I HAVE BEEN THERE!




So...how do you know?

How can we pevent ourselves from going out with a man just to realize they only want one thing?

How do we prevent the online romance that is bound to leave you heartbroken?



It's had enough to read people in real life when your face to face...how the hell do you read them through a monitor? you can also see my blogs on myspace... dont have me on myspace yet? click this pic to go to my page..

This one is kinda tough for me. ONLINE RELATIONSHIPS..... Now this isn't for everybody. Some people are very much against online relationships and thats ok. To each their own. I personally don't have a problem with them at all. I have had a few in the past and presuing one now as well. Their are a few things that make it harder than a face to face relationship but, I am just going to focus on one for the moment. If you have read the blogs for the past 2 days you know that Sex is a big part of a relationship for me. Manyhave agreed with me and manyhave disagreed as well. In my mind it is and this is my blogs on my perspective afterall so I am gonna go with that. Keeping the sexual aspect of a relationship alive can be difficult at times and when you put a few thousand miles in the mix that just really throws it off. Three Main solutions come to mind. 1.Cyber Sex 2.Phone Sex 3.Cam Sex Ok so cam is cybering as well but for the sake of my own sanity I am classifying them as two different things. Cyber just you and your keyboard typing out the scenerio's and cam as having the visual to help you along. CYBER SEX Strickly typing back and forth all the details of what you would do to each other can be a real drag. Trying to type with one hand or stoping each time you need to type can put a real damper on things and give ya hell of a cramp in your wrist. Although it is fun to send dirty messages online or text them to your partner (more fun when you know they are working or for some reason unable to do anything about it) but....is it really satisfying? PHONE SEX This is a little better yet. You can focus both hand on the job at hand and you get to hear all those dirty little desires in you ear. Hearing their voice makes it Oh so much better. It's more personal and hell when you hear the moans and groans that come from the thought of them being with you...well thats just peachy. *wink* CAM SEX Ok we are steping up another notch. The visual can be fantastic. Watching him... Oh I better stop hehe. Well I don't think I need to get into too much detail with this one. We all know what we are gonna be watching...but on a downfall if you need to do some typing as well then you can garentee that your not gonna see the "show" and the face together. You will have to choose and personally I think the expression on someone's face is one of the best parts of good sex. Now of course you can combine phone and cam together to help things out but thats about as good as it's gonna get. With such limited options how does one keep their online romance sexual stimulated? I mean when there's a large distance between two people it's near impossible to catch someone cheating. So how do you keep your Online romance from entertaining the idea of sneaking out for a little satisfication?