Bugster816's blog: "about me "

created on 11/05/2014 | http://fubar.com/about-me/b360590

posted on 08/09/2019&nbs-07:00;@&nbs-07:00;05:08&nbs-07:00;am

soul searching
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If your reading this 1st of all thank you .. let me tell you about me ..right now my life is complicated ..well not really complicated just stressfull.I am married but wife has serious memory issues I have to deal with.Dont know if its like Dementia she still can function but short term memory just isnt there. Its getting harder for me to effectively communicate with her .. And I also take care of both parents mom is in nursing home Dad is home alone in their house living ..Now he has diebetes and other issues i visit him and Mom in between working full time ..The time has come for me to consider moving in with him he needs supervision mentally and physically ..When i brought this subject up my wife refues to accept it I dont know if its because in her mental state she cant comprehend or because she is being stubborn . I know this I have duel roles now one working full time and caretaker rest of time and I cant handle all of it . I have no life ..no time ..and limited support .. I go on here for social time all the stuff i dont have time or money for .i cant manage taking care of 3 people ..well Nursing home takes good care of Mom but still have to find time to visit between taking care of wife who does not work or drive .and taking care of Dad.. I try to explain to wife that is my duty to take care of parents ..They took care of you ..now its time to return favor but she cant comprhend .Both her parents died 10 +years ago she thinks they died last week .. And now soul searching begins ..Do we put remaining family in nursing home for care so I can have some peace and relieve stress or do I contuinue trying to give all i have left in me until I have nothing left .I wish i knew the answer .. if you do or just want to chat come say hi . i promise i will behave I only flirt just a little ..

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posted on 01/20/2018&nbs-08:00;@&nbs-08:00;04:01&nbs-08:00;am

Tea Time
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With all the problems we have in this Country all the government seems to worry about is how to keep the collective machine rolling keeping themselves in power and wealth at any cost ..using our money collected by taxes to spend not on the necessities of keeping our great country alive and well but to ensure that their wealth and control last in perpetuity . They give money to people who come here illegally give them benefits and then tell the rest of us they don't have money in budget to help our own people in need ..then they tell us they need more money on top of that ..They spend more then we take in as a nation run up the debt on every special pet project they have and then threaten us with "you don't pass this spending bill we will shut down gov't.. go ahead do it i dare you .. because you know what ? we should do like the British did in Boston..they dumped tea in the harbor.. if you owe taxes this year dump tax returns in harbor.. If they are going to spend our money like drunken sailors and accomplish nothing but more debt and more problems they do not deserve it ..if they don't get our money they cant spend it .And if they threaten you with 'well were just gonna shut down" ..well then tell Congress to be first ones to close up shop ..And don't tell us that when the gov't shuts down our soldiers do not get paid ..that's why we dump tax bills in harbor .."about the tax money i owe you gov't machine ..its in the harbor .." then tell them you donated your portion of what you owe the gov't to soldiers which we owe a great deal to ..in fact we can take all our tax money we save by dumping them in harbor to accomplish more than they ever could ..

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