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If your reading this 1st of all thank you .. let me tell you about me ..right now my life is complicated ..well not really complicated just stressfull.I am married but wife has serious memory issues I have to deal with.Dont know if its like Dementia she still can function but short term memory just isnt there. Its getting harder for me to effectively communicate with her .. And I also take care of both parents mom is in nursing home Dad is home alone in their house living ..Now he has diebetes and other issues i visit him and Mom in between working full time ..The time has come for me to consider moving in with him he needs supervision mentally and physically ..When i brought this subject up my wife refues to accept it I dont know if its because in her mental state she cant comprehend or because she is being stubborn . I know this I have duel roles now one working full time and caretaker rest of time and I cant handle all of it . I have no life ..no time ..and limited support .. I go on here for social time all the stuff i dont have time or money for .i cant manage taking care of 3 people ..well Nursing home takes good care of Mom but still have to find time to visit between taking care of wife who does not work or drive .and taking care of Dad.. I try to explain to wife that is my duty to take care of parents ..They took care of you ..now its time to return favor but she cant comprhend .Both her parents died 10 +years ago she thinks they died last week .. And now soul searching begins ..Do we put remaining family in nursing home for care so I can have some peace and relieve stress or do I contuinue trying to give all i have left in me until I have nothing left .I wish i knew the answer .. if you do or just want to chat come say hi . i promise i will behave I only flirt just a little ..
