I AM ASKING ALL MY CHERRY FRIENDS/FANS TO HONESTLY ANSWER THIS IF YOU KNOW ME AND HAVE CHATTED WITH ME...
I HAVE BEEN ACCUSED OF NOT BEING A TRUE FRIEND.
I HAD A DISAGREEMENT WITH SOMEONE WHO I THOUGHT WAS MY BEST FRIEND. SHE NEVER WISHED US WELL ON OUR TRIP AWAY FROM HOME AND I SENT HER A TEXT MESSAGE SAYING "TY FOR WISHING US WELL ON OUR TRIP, WAIT, U DIDN'T". SHE GOT UPSET AND SAID I WAS MEAN. THEN HER FRIEND, ALSO ON CT AND DOESN'T EVEN KNOW ME, GOT INVOLVED AND SAID I AM NOT A TRUE FRIEND AND I AM A SELFISH PERSON.
HE BASICALLY SAID 2 THINGS...TRUE FRIENDS NEVER HAVE TO APOLOGIZE TO EACH OTHER FOR ANYTHING AND NEVER HAVE ANY EXPECTATIONS OF EACH OTHER.
I DISAGREED. I SAID TRUE FRIENDS SHOULD APOLOGIZE IF THEY UPSET OR HURT EACH OTHER (WHICH THIS BEST FRIEND HAD DONE) AND EXPECTATIONS IN FRIENDSHIP ARE HONESTY, TRUST, CARING, AND KEEPING PROMISES WITH RARE EXCEPTIONS. I ALSO TOLD HIM IT WAS ADMIRABLE HE WANTS TO BE THERE FOR HER, BUT SINCE HE DIDN'T KNOW ME, HE REALLY HAD NO RIGHT TO GET INVOLVED AND INSULT ME BECAUSE HE ONLY KNEW HER SIDE...
NOW, AGAIN, I WAS ACCUSED OF NOT BEING A TRUE FRIEND. THOSE OF U WHO KNOW ME AND CHAT WITH ME REGULARLY, AM I A HORRIBLE FRIEND OR AM I A TRUE FRIEND?
