FOR HIM...
1. Love is a great seducer for your partner, and there will be no shortage of romance in your relationship.
2. Compliment the physical beauty of your partner, use word pictures to communicate awe of your partner's beauty.
3. Be wise and sensitive, not comparing your partner to other women but to something else of beauty and worth.
4. Choose a romantic environment, there are other places besides the bedroom to romance your partner.
5. Develop a sensitivity of how you request your partner's romantic attention, the right approach can be seductive to her; a crude or crass approach sickening to her.
6. Acknowledge her nonsexual attributes to kindle her romantic desire for you, begin with the light of her body, the eyes.
7. Speak to her in provocative but not perverted romantic language as you attempt to ignite passion.
8. Acknowledge over and over again that she's yours, this tells her "I'm the only one for him."
9. Let your partner know she has captured your heart, and tell her how specifically.
10. Always focus more on your love than your lovemaking, for her this is the chief conduit to romance.
FOR HER
1. Respect and take interest in your partner's nonsexual activities, this makes him feel virile.
2. Speak your partner's love language, this will acknowledge and excite his sexual passion for you.
3. Mention "handsome" and "bedroom" in the same sentence to your partner, it's a surefire signal that romance is on your mind.
4. Let your partner know that you really enjoy being his world, he'll be awed by the notion.
5. Demonstrate to your partner that you're emotionally connected to him.
6. Don't allow anyone or anything to interfer with a romantic encounter, make your partner a priority.
7. Initiate lovemaking, it's a huge turn-on to your partner when he knows you seek him sexually.
8. Acknowledge his personal and physical attributes, it will ignite his passion for you, tell him why he's absolutely desirable to you.
9. Plan and execute a secret getaway just for romance.
